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06-12-2019
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04-12-2019
08:28 PM
Hi @Megha I am about to send you an email. Please keep an eye out for it.
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02-12-2019
11:06 PM
1 Kudo
My pleasure @xXLexi_Lou122Xx Being a visual learner is completely ok! I think I'm a visual learner. I also like to put things down on paper - whether it includes writing info, or drawing something that conveys the info, or underlining, highlighting and colour coding things etc. My weekend was really good. Thanks for asking. I had my cousin's engagement on Saturday night which was lots of fun. Then I relaxed on Sunday. How was your weekend? Have you got much planned for over summer?
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02-12-2019
10:43 PM
3 Kudos
Hello everyone @Bananatime04, long time no speak, nice to have you back on the forums. I don't want to disturb the chatter here, but just popped in to tell @xXLexi_Lou122Xx that I've had to edit out some of post - we have to be careful not to imply health diagnoses on this forum. It's okay though, I know you didn't mean to do this. I just needed to tell you so that you learn / refrain from doing it again @Bananatime04 - are you receiving mental health professional support at the moment? Perhaps this chest pain is something you can talk with your psychologist/ psychiatrist about. It'd also be a really good idea to make an appointment with your doctor too when you can. If you're afraid to call the Healthline, it might be worth asking a sibling, parent or teacher to call on your behalf? Also, if the pain increases over the course of the night, I'd suggest you let your parents know and seek medical attention. Thank you for confirming safety @Bananatime04
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01-12-2019
10:40 PM
2 Kudos
Hey @xXLexi_Lou122Xx Thank you for editing and confirming safety. Also, thanks for contributing to this thread. It can be a really nice way to get some of your thoughts/feelings off your chest. I hope you have found expressing your thoughts helpful. Please continue to use this thread as a means of expression if it helps you feel better, clarify your thoughts, or just get things off your chest
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01-12-2019
10:25 PM
1 Kudo
Hey @xXLexi_Lou122Xx I just wanted to pop in and say that I'm super glad to hear that you've found a friend who you can trust as that is definitely something you deserve Also, it's okay if you've failed some subjects. It is important to remember that you did your best given your circumstances. We all learn differently. And from what you've told me so far, the new school's teaching style will be better suited to your learning style, right? So, I'm guessing you'll flourish in that environment, as you clearly have a lot of potential. I can tell that you have potential by the way you write and communicate on the forums. It's really impressive. Lovely to see you two @scared01 and @xXLexi_Lou122Xx supporting each other. Hope you both had a good weekend.
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01-12-2019
10:12 PM
3 Kudos
Hey @Eden1717 That sounds really difficult. I'm guessing these thoughts are quite frightening for you. I can't imagine what it would be like to think that people who are there to help me aren't actually themselves or are being controlled by other beings. I know you mention that these thoughts exist, but are they something that just enter your mind, or you do you believe them whole-heartedly? When did these thoughts/beliefs start occurring? Is there anyone in your life that you do trust at the moment?
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25-11-2019
11:13 PM
2 Kudos
@xXLexi_Lou122Xx I'm know 1 is true, pretty sure 2 is true. If I remember correctly, you have fainted in the past, but it's not a regular thing. So.... 3 is a lie?
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25-11-2019
10:55 PM
1 Kudo
1,000 new books or 1,000 new movies @xXLexi_Lou122Xx - Unicorns @TOM-RO - if we're talking purely taste purposes... then maccas... mmm double cheeseburger *drools* @drpenguin - hard g for sure. Move schools and have no friends.
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23-11-2019
03:28 PM
"Tea tree ice-cream sounds odd" he said "no thanks...got any chocolate?"
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23-11-2019
02:15 PM
5 Kudos
Hey @WheresMySquishy That sounds really hard. You are showing extreme strength and resilience throughout all of this. Applying for clinical masters while going through all of this, in itself, is a huge achievement. You should be very proud of yourself. I really hope your sister is okay. It must've been hard to hear the FND specialist, the person who is "meant" to have all the answers, say "we're screwed." As a patient, or a relative of a patient, it's not really what you want to hear, is it? I'm glad the doctor is hopeful and remaining optimistic though . I hope everything works out. My thoughts are with you and your family during this stressful time. Hopefully psychological treatment will improve things for your sister. Hey, if you get into clinical masters, maybe you can teach her some coping strategies??? Provide some counselling? (Joking - I know that's unethical). Thinking of you and wishing you all the best with your applications.
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23-11-2019
01:47 PM
3 Kudos
Hey @xXLexi_Lou122Xx Just thought I'd chime in and show you my support . You definitely aren't a let-down or a mistake . While it may be hard to believe right now, your parents are doing this purely because they love you and want the best for you - not because they don't want to have you. It seems like your parents have weighed up the pros and cons of each school and decided that the new school is better suited to you. I can see that you feel you haven't been apart of the decision though, which is understandably upsetting you. I know it all feels really scary right now, but I believe you'll get through it, and I think your parents, and all the users here, do too. We just need you to believe in yourself. You're a lot stronger than you think Can you think of three positives of moving schools?
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23-11-2019
08:41 AM
2 Kudos
Live in the city or the country? I had too much fun with this thread this morning: Tea or Coffee: @Taylor-RO ... um that is HARD. If I had to choose one to keep in my life it would be tea because it is healthier. Mango's or Apricots:@Animallover2003 - mangoes for sure. Winter or Summer: @JanaG - Summer without a doubt!!! Ice cream or flavoured milk: Ice cream Stuffed or real: @Nightwing - real Early bird (wake up early) or night owl (stay up late): @Bananatime04 - I'm forced into being a night owl because of the hours I work. I prefer being an early bird tho. Jellyfish or Octopuses: Octopuses because I like grilled octopus (the Greek dish) Hyperthermia or heat stroke: Neither Little dogs or big dogs: Big dogs 100 Puppies or 100 kittens: 100 kittens. Hyena's or African Wild Dogs: Not sure.. never heard of an African wild dog before today. Go to the moon or mars: @May_ Hmmm...mars. Go to China or America: Probably China as I've never been Fall in love at first sight or fall in love by getting to know a person: @ruthxxx fall in love by getting to know a person FOR SURE. I don't really believe in love at first sight... it's more like attraction at first sight??? Glass of water with ice or without: @lennycat2017 with Cheeseburger or chicken burger: cheeseburger *drools* Lemon Solo, or Lemonade: @xXLexi_Lou122Xx neither really... not the biggest fan of soft drink... maybe home-made lemonade?? Snow or Rain: Hard one... snow because it's a bit of a novelty... but I dislike the cold so...
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21-11-2019
10:50 PM
Hey @Ruby-jones My pleasure I'm excited for you too. Can't wait to hear about your counselling journey! I always encourage people to start counselling at a young age. You'll learn positive coping strategies that you can use for the rest of your life.
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21-11-2019
07:07 PM
5 Kudos
Hey @Jess1-RO - nice discussion topic . What are some “healthy” relationship challenges? Every relationships has it's challenges - even the best kinds. Challenges in healthy relationships can arise when making "big life decisions", because you're no longer just making decisions for yourself, but have to consider the other person too. For example, buying your first property with someone can be hard, especially if you have two different things in mind, and want to live in different areas. What are your “deal breakers” (challenges that overstep your boundaries) I can't be with someone who sees the world vastly differently from me, or with someone who has very different values, opinions, and future aspirations. For example, I would struggle to be with someone who is homophobic, racist and judgmental of others. Compromise is also huge - I couldn't be with someone who doesn't compromise or is selfish. Healthy relationships are about give and take What do you think is most important when handling conflict with your partner? Speaking openly, honestly and respectfully is huge. Remaining calm, compromising, and trying to put yourself in the other person's shoes.
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20-11-2019
10:49 PM
I started wearing glasses when I was three I did gymnastics as a child I don't have a favourite colour
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20-11-2019
10:46 PM
4 Kudos
Today I am grateful for making myself a yummy, healthy dinner.
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20-11-2019
10:35 PM
1 Kudo
Hey @Ruby-jones I think this is my first time responding to you. Nice to e-meet you and welcome to the ReachOut community. I've just caught up on your thread and am amazed at the level of insight you have, and how courageous you are for speaking about your concerns openly, not only with us, but also with your family. Having an amazing family does definitely help, so I'm glad that's the case . "I want to control my anxiety, not have my anxiety control me" - that is such a powerful statement, and I think something that many can relate to. I'm excited for you to start your counselling journey. I think it's something you'll only benefit from How did the chat with your dad go? Please keep us updated.
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18-11-2019
10:25 PM
4 Kudos
Hey @Ummmm_what Yeah it can be really hard to open up about certain things. That is something I can relate to. It's important to take your time and open up to friends/ family when you feel ready. Like you said there is no rush. It's pretty normal to question your sexuality. It's also pretty normal to be "attracted" to certain people - and it doesn't necessarily mean you want to be romantically involved with them. I'm a female and I can think of both men and women who I've been drawn to, not because I "like like" them, but because I like their company and value them as a person. So some of what your feeling towards this girl could be just that - a desire to be around them because you enjoy their company. It could also be something more - but I guess you'll figure that out soon enough . I'm also a straight female and can still look at another woman and think she is incredibly beautiful! It seems like you found it really beneficial to get this off your chest though. I think you might also really benefit from discussing some of this stuff with a professional support service, such as KHL as @TOM-RO linked you earlier. Getting things off your chest can help a lot!
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17-11-2019
04:23 PM
1 Kudo
Hey @Tiny_leaf That sounds really frustrating for you . Could you potentially ask your parents to sell the wheelchair to someone, like online? Or even do that yourself? You could also potentially donate it somewhere?
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17-11-2019
09:10 AM
Hi @Bleedingangel Thanks for your posts last night and for supporting @Charli_le_monke . Regarding your question about entering the mental health field - I'd recommend that you start a new thread with your question in our "everyday life" section here. Once you do that, we (and the community) can respond there with some general tips. We just want to be careful not to take over @Charli_le_monke's thread, that's all . I look forward to reading/ responding to your new thread! If you have any questions on how to use the forum, just post them here.
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17-11-2019
08:49 AM
2 Kudos
Hey @hellofriend You can ask on here if you like - it might be helpful for the community, who may have the same questions as you. Or do you feel like the questions you want to ask may break the guidelines, hence wanting to send us an email?
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14-11-2019
10:47 PM
Welcome to the ReachOut community @Muffin_ ... we are happy to have you It's pretty cool that you like music from the 80's - what are some of your favourite bands/ musicians from that era? You mention feeling unsure how to use our forums. I'm sure you'll pick it up quickly. A good way to get started on here is by reading our community guidelines if you haven't already. See them here.
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14-11-2019
10:24 PM
1 Kudo
Hey @xXLexi_Lou122Xx "Rapport" is a fancy term for "get along with" or "like" ... if you have built rapport with a person it usually means you have built a relationship, can communicate effectively, and feel comfortable with them. It's nice to hear that you have noticed some benefits of going to this new school. It sounds like the idea is growing on you a little bit? Also it's awesome that speaking to your mum made you feel better. You sound worried about leaving your current friends, which makes total sense. It is still possible to support your friend in her role as a junior chaplain from a distance . I was wondering whether it's possible to contact them via phone or the internet? Or just organise to catch up with them in person?
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13-11-2019
10:57 PM
2 Kudos
Great idea @ecla34 - I think it's one lots of people can relate to. I struggle to say no sometimes, but have gotten a lot better with age!
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13-11-2019
10:34 PM
Hi @Bento Thank you for sharing. I hope you don't mind but I have had to remove part of your post about your story. Even though you are describing fiction, some of the themes are still quite violent and may be triggering for readers, hence removing it. It's really good that you are feeling motivated to write though! You come across as quite articulate over the forums, so I'm guessing you'd have no trouble writing a good story. Have you considered potentially searching for a forum for authors or people writing books? I'm unsure if such forums exist, but if they do, it could be a really good place for you to express some of your ideas. On a forum like that, it's likely you'd get lots of awesome feedback too. I guess it's just a matter of whether one exists? Maybe have a look and let me know how you go? Otherwise, we also have a writer's thread here where you can post some of your writing, so long as it's not too long and is appropriate for the forums.
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13-11-2019
06:19 PM
3 Kudos
Hi @Charli_le_monke Welcome to ReachOut and thanks for sharing what's going on for you - that was very brave of you. You mentioned not wanting to live anymore which has got me worried about you. Are you able to confirm your safety for me? If you are feeling unsafe, please contact crisis support (see a list of possible services here), and if you are in immediate danger then please call 000 (triple zero). I'm not sure if you're aware but we have a set of community guidelines that can be found here. These guidelines are written to ensure that we maintain a safe space for all users, and they ask users to 1) confirm their safety when saying things that may lead others to think you're at risk of hurting yourself and 2) to avoid descriptions of abuse/ assault. You have not described abuse or assault, which is good, but I just thought I'd give you a heads up about this guideline as you might not be aware. For details on how to post about self-harm/suicide safely on the forums, please see here. Please also have a read of our mandatory reporting requirements, which are stated on the community guidelines (linked above). Now, back to what's going on for you. It can be so hard when you're left feeling unheard, or not taken seriously. I'm so sorry you have to experience that . I know you've told your school counselor, but I'm wondering whether there's anyone else in your life that you'd feel comfortable telling this to?
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10-11-2019
02:53 PM
3 Kudos
Hey @Bananatime04, thanks for sharing. It sounds like you're conflicted about where to live. It is a little bit hard for me to help you decide with such minimal information. I have a few questions for you: 1. When you say you want to move back to your old home - what do you mean exactly? Like move in with your other parent? Or do you mean relocate there with the people you are currently living with? Who are you living with at the moment - your mum or dad (correct me if I'm wrong but I remember your parents are separated) ? 2. How can you drive to school if you're not 18? Do you mean your parent(s) will have to drive you? Even once you do answer these questions it will be hard for me to help you decide because I don't know the relationship you have with each of your parents and so on. And there's only so much you can reveal on our forums. Do you have a psychologist you can discuss some of this with? I can comment on a few things however . I don't think losing your job is the biggest deal, as you can always get a new job. The gymnastic thing would be unfortunate because you seem to enjoy it so much, however there could be a gymnastics club near your old home, but even if there isn't, I'm sure there are many other sports/activities you could engage in and get enjoyment out of. Also, you mention feeling unhappy, and it seems like at the moment, moving back home seems like a way to "fix" these feelings of unhappiness. Is that right? I guess it's hard for me to know whether your environment / current situation is causing these feelings of unhappiness, and whether moving will actually help - this is where a psychologist can probably help you. For instance, there are many things that can make us feel unhappy...including the way we think about and frame experiences in our mind, and our thought patterns. If it is the last two things I mentioned, then a psychologist could help you to "correct" these negative thought patterns, and you may even start to feel happy in your current home. In other words, moving homes may not necessarily fix these feelings of unhappiness, it just depends on what is causing the unhappiness. Does that make sense?
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