@WheresMySquishy    It does sound like a fair amount to take on when parents get involved. You have summed it up perfectly that your life is your life, where you make your own choices on what makes you happy, and that being in a relationship now does not have to be one of them now. that it will come naturally when you feel you are ready. ... View more

@ecla34  Have you ever felt like you have to date or be in a relationship? For me, this brings up some personal thoughts. I have felt that way before in my life. Mostly because I was surrounded by a lot of people who are already in relationships, and have thought to myself "Damn, I need to find someone" and 'why cant I have that relationship". Made me feel like I was being left out of a clique in a way. As society does like saying "you need to be in a relationship to be happy". Which is not necessarily true for everyone.    How have you managed the pressure to be in a relationship? By realising that I'm only human, with different dreams, hopes, fears, qualities. That being in a relationship will only happen when I want it to happen, and with being with someone who can help with bringing out the best in both of us, for each other. Makes it easier to avoid getting pressured by perfectionism in relationships and haters from others hahahah   ... View more

@Hozzles  That comment from that someone who said "but that's just how lesbian relationships are!" sounds awful. I'm sure you have many things that you can offer someone when you are feeling ready to date again :) ... View more

@Hozzles    I really love how you have broaden the scope on the definition of dating. Its amazing to see that dating is not a one-way or one-size-fits-all process, which you have suggested yourself from your experiences and stories.  ... View more

Hi @WheresMySquishy  I can only answer one of these questions. Dating for me is about exploring. Both about about the suitor and myself. Because anyone would want to be in a relationship where they can feel safe, have fun with someone we enjoy the company with. So dating provides opportunities to go out and find out more about what you like in a partner and what the person can give you when investing in these relationships.  ... View more

Hi @xXLexi_Lou122Xx    I'm sorry that you are feeling alone right now. I want to ask: what is happening right now that is making you feel alone? Even though you said you are not in the mood at the moment to type, I would like to hear what you have to say when you are ready.  ... View more

Seeing a lot of interesting posts about different experiences guys. I love it!   This week I plan on exploring a new neighbourhood whilst looking for the spot where an information session for a new course being held in the future. I hope I get to meet some inspiring people and find out interesting things that will be spoken about!   ... View more

Hi @Amanthi    Great topic to post up! For me, affirmations are like goal setting strategy. They can help with pulling myself out of bed and building up mental strength to tackle my day and challenges. What is more, they help me with reminding me to be kind, both to others and myself. As even though there can be some bleakness some days, I still am living my own life to the way that makes me happy. What are your thoughts on this topic? ... View more

@Jessica123    I agree with what @Bre-RO said. I think it is normal to have those crushes. What i can also is that you are a person who is changing everyday in your own way. And that is okay to experience.  ... View more

Resistance - Skillet   Because Skillet is my favourite band of all time!!! ... View more

This will be interesting to hear about from everyone. Hopefully I can join in too!   ... View more

Hi @Jessica123    I want to say thank you for sharing this post! Its awesome that you are expressing yourself own this platform, which I can imagine that it must have been scary, correct me if I'm wrong.  It does sound this subject is very important to you and can be challenging to figure out on your own. Especially when it involves your relationship with someone you cherish. One question I want to ask you about, to start off as Im interested in what you have to say, how long has this been going on for? ... View more

Heya, loving the ideas here! Great suggestions that seem simple and easy to utilise! :D  If I can contribute to this discussion, here is what I have to offer: Do you have any tips for improving sleep hygiene? Have lots of blankets. If you sleep in a cold room/environment, you are more likely to wake up at night, and feel more irritable during the day. So more blankets means more warmth. I would recommend less for hotter days hahaha. Learnt that the hard way :P From everyone's suggestions on reading books, I would like to add to this by trying to read a book about a topic one might find boring and dull. They make for good topics that you want to sleep to haha.  If need be, talk to someone who provides calm for you before going to bed. The reason I say this is when I'm stressed about things and people, I find it harder to go to sleep. So talking to someone whom I feel safe and calm with makes going and staying asleep easier to do.  What will you try this week to improve your sleep? Reading more topics I find calming... or boring ahahha  ... View more

Haha all good @SomeoneNADJS :) ... View more

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Hi @ruthxxx    I agree with @WheresMySquishy  and @Tiny_leaf suggestions/advice. What I can say as well first session with any health service provider is usually a getting to know you session. Which can be a good thing. For instance, I have found from sessions in the past within mental health/counselling can be great opportunities to have a new kind of support.   If you do not feel comfortable speaking in depth about your experiences with the counsellor, the session could just be a talk, where the topics of interest can diversified, such talking more about what kind of person you are, your hobbies,dreams, interests, goals etc. This way it could help minimise the nerves, if that would be something you would be willing to try.  ... View more

Hi @Bee  How has it been? Love the idea for this!!   What are you looking forward to this year?  Doing more adventures, reconnecting with people I care about but have not seen for a while, new and fascinating topics that I have not heard of or explored before What is your favourite summer treat? ICE-CREAM!!!!! and watermelon hehe :P How do you keep cool in the heat? shade, cool drinks (water), and aircon Do you have any new years resolutions? Finishing my course, gaining greater resilence and  strength both mentally and physically, getting a new job in the field I want to be a part of :D   What about you? what are your answers??? ... View more

@TiaWilliams104    Reading through what you have shared, it does sound like a hard situation. I would be scared to and worried if I was in your position. It is a courageous step that you are reaching out to seek support :). As sometimes its hard to share when you don't know the outcome.  I have questions about what you have shared. The first one being while you have said that your sister has been causing problems for you and your parents, are there times where that is not the case in home? and what else have you been doing to help with you self care when experiencing this issue? ... View more

Hi @Rylielloyd    I'm good. Yourself? What kind of games do you like? ... View more

Hi @TidalDecade    How are you of late? I must say I enjoyed reading your post. Like with you fav show being how I met your mother, I'm wondering which is your favourite character? Though with Brooklyn Nine Nine, I very much highly recommend you watch it. It is one of the best tv comedies you'll see. It's like scrubs (if you have seen it), but with cops instead hahah  ... View more

Hi @rosiiboo96    How are you and Welcome to the forums :D. What kind of food do enjoy the most as a foodie haha? ... View more

Hi @khanh09    Reading through what you have shared, I'm wondering if any changes have happened since then? I just want to know if things are better and you are feeling better and more safe? ... View more

Hi @scamper    Thank you for reaching out to us. I'm sorry that you are going through a rough situation. I will say that I think it is brave what you have done by bringing this up as it shows you trying to be honest about it :). Which is a great quality to have.    What was the relationship like with these two boys? I'm interested in what you have to share :) ... View more

Hey @khanh09    It does sound awful what you are going though, that you feel unfairly treated by the girlfriend who is doing this to. You have the right to feel safe, loved, and trusted around people you care about. If I was in your position, I think I'd be afraid too.    I have a couple of questions: What is the current relationships you have like? Are they one big group or separate groups? Cause I'm interested in knowing what you are currently doing to handle the situation or if there are others you feel more safe around. ... View more

@Bee That's fair :P. That's great to hear that you got to see your old manager! Always good to have a familiar face to see for support :) That is something I can empathise with. You do what you need to do :) Seize the day alright haha :D ... View more

@Jess1-RO Thank you for this :)   What does recovery mean to you?   Recovery, to me, means a never-ending process that is part of living life. While trauma and tragedy do exist and is something we have experienced both individually and collectively, so does healing and growth exist. When situations bring about anger, stress, sadness, recovery involves taking the steps and courage to journey through testing situations and coming out with a renewed sense of empowerment and perseverance. Recover is not a linear process, but rather a shared journey with others that are loved and supportive towards each other and can bring out the best in others. As there is a quote I have heard of before: “We are people, not islands”. Although I cannot remember who has said it. Much like how I have been afraid of isolation most of my life, but with others challenging me and supporting me to grow and learn new ideas and people, I found myself relieved, more hopeful, and more determined to tackle whatever life can throw at me. Is there a gif or image that represents your understanding or experience of recovery? Recovery, through healing and support. This image to me represents that recovery, as a practice, is not isolated. That in recovery, it is okay to admit when things are dark and cause anxiety and feeling like on is alone to fend for themselves. But I don't think anyone is ever truly alone. There are still people in life that are willing to support one another. And that connection is what keeps negativity at bay, and promotes healing recovery. Hope this gives somebody reassurance, a new meaning and appreciation, and more confidence about their lives and their ability to tackle life challenges in small steps :).   ... View more

@ruthxxx It does sound weird. Have you spoken to the one who has commented on your post? What other thoughts have come into your mind about this situation?  ... View more

@Bee  Your bottom GIF: 'Hulk..SMASH!!!!' :P ... View more

@Bee It does sound full on. Purposely, I wouldn't be able to a job that involved doing some level of professional banking myself hahaha. My maths is not the greatest :P. What do you reckon she can understand about your personal procedure of how do the tasks you are given?    Also, has anything new happened of late?? ... View more

@Bee  That's okay. As any amount of progress is still better than nothing :). Is that a particular procedure they do at your work? with mail and banking I mean? ... View more