Thank you so much for atleast reading my post and giving me your advice. I had already tried comforting her by telling her that it's okay to be scared by such things and i can really understand her situation but then also she is just too scared that she starts thinking that if I try to help her she will just cause me more problems and because of this whenever she starts to think those things she just try to hide her feelings and her thoughts from me and just want me to leave her alone at that time.. Even though I seriously don't leave her until she finally walks away by herself. And okay now I will try to convince her to go and talk with any professional about her problems. I just wish she might get some help that she needs right now! Thank you so much again.
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There is a very close friend of mine, she is a very kind hearted and loving girl and is always ready to help out others. Whenever she finds someone in difficulty or in any kind of pain or trouble she always trys to help that person. In her surroundings she always sends a lot of positivity and good vibes BUT when it comes to her own matter she really can help herself! The actual problem with her is that she have a very great fear of losing her close and loved ones and by losing I mean seeing them dead or badly injured due to some accident or something like that.. She recently shared this fear of her with me and also told me that due to many bad things (like death in accidents and disease) which she had seen happening to her family and friends when she was very small she had developed this fear inside of her and because of it she really gets so much anxious and starts thinking in a very negative way. She almost start to think that what are all the negative things that can happen to her by any particular thing. One day she was acting so strange so i forced her to tell me what's the matter and then she told me about all these things and then suddenly she started to panic and started asking me to leave her alone and just kept on saying sorry to me and kept on asking me to leave. That day she told me that nobody will ever understand her problem as her mom and dad don't take her seriously when she tell them about her problems and because of this reason she just act being normal and happy in front od everyone but the reality is that deep inside her soul she is fighting a war with her fears and anxiety and she is LOSING it! I really want to help her as I really can't see her suffer all these things alone. PLEASE GUYS help me with some of your advice that how i can make her feel better and help her to fight with her fear!!!
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