Yes of course @musicfan_xo ! Just come up with another one so that we can keep the game going! ... View more

Welcome to the forum @Potatoes_are_good ! It's great to have you here. Sounds like some tough times you are going through right now. Please feel free to share your thoughts and emotions here, we're all here to help you! I joined this forum because of all the mental health issues I've seen my friends go through during the last few years, which made me more passionate about making a difference in terms of mental health in the community. This forum has really helped me gain a wider awareness of the kinds of issues people are going through and increased my understanding of these issues. Hope to see you around!  ... View more

Mauve!   Name the first song (and the artist) that you can think of  ... View more

Hi @Tom3176 , sounds like a really tough situation you're in right now. Here's an article that could really help you: https://au.reachout.com/articles/coping-with-a-breakup . I know the article is about breakups, but I think a lot of the tips there could be relevant to your situation here. I personally don't have a lot of experience with relationships, but I definitely know how bad it can feel when we realise we want something only after the opportunity is gone. It's important to know that even though we feel like it's a missed opportunity now, we weren't ready at the start, especially since you felt that you shouldn't rush into things. I think it's best to provide her with an honest explanation of what you think now, and see how she responds. No matter how she decides to respond, please make sure you take care of yourself during this time, and don't let this situation impact on your daily life! Try to pursue your hobbies or spend some time with family to take this off your mind. Let me know how it goes! ... View more

Hello @Pasta , that sounds amazing! It seems as though you've built yourself a very good support network, which hopefully you can lean on and rely on them if any issues do occur in the future. It's also great that you've found yourself a passion and a goal! While we can't change your childhood, or erase the sadness of the past, the best thing you can do, which you're doing very well in right now, is to move on from those memories and not let them affect your goals and who you want to be. Keep up the great work! ... View more

Thanks @Eden1717 for making this thread! Hopefully this becomes a safe place where you guys are comfortable discussing things regarding your sexuality. I'll be totally honest, I've never experienced any of these issues myself, and I haven't really had much experience with the LGBTQIA+ community before this year. However, if anyone needs to talk, I'll try to help as much as I can! This year, I actually made friends with the only gay person in my cohort, and I also started on ReachOut, which has provided me with more insight into the LGBTQIA+ community. I hope to learn more about each of your perspectives, and help as much as possible!    ... View more

No worries @michael17 ! It's great that you understand the low probability of car accidents and that the person driving is quite experienced.  Your parents worrying is a good thing, it means they care about you! However, it's important that they're not too worried, so talk to them about their concerns and assure them that you'll be with a safe driver. Have fun on your trip! ... View more

Hi @michael17 ,  I've also just finished my year 12 exams, what a fun time it is! After all these years of hard work, you definitely deserve to go on a road trip to celebrate. I'll be completely honest, there will always be that risk of crashing. However, you've maybe read on the news about that one car that crashes everyday, but you're forgetting about those millions of other cars that pass through safely everyday! The chances of something happening are quite low, especially if you drive safely. Have you talked to your friends about it? Who's driving, and how experienced are they at driving? I'm sure your friends will share similar concerns, so don't be afraid to talk to them about it! Let me know how it goes. Enjoy your break! ... View more

Hi @kutekitty01 , it's great that you've noticed something's wrong with your friend, it means you're really caring and empathetic, especially at such a young age! It's also great that you want to help her, although I know it can be hard to approach someone you're not particularly close to. There are a lot of ways you could check on her to see if she is ok though. You could try asking her for help with some homework, then afterwards asking her if she is ok. Or you could ask Jeff to see if they know more about Bob's mental state. Whatever you decide to do, please make sure that you talk to Bob alone, so that she isn't embarrassed in front of everyone. Please update us on the situation later!   Sorry if my advice wasn't the best, I'm not particularly experienced in these kinds of situations either? I'm sure others can provide some advice too  ... View more

Thanks for all the websites you guys have given! For people in my case, I think the university support networks could be a good place to look for help, whether that be for advice on where to live, or counselling if you're feeling homesick. Thanks for talking with me tonight everyone, it's been a great conversation! Sorry guys, I have to go now, see you all next time! ... View more

As I mentioned before, homesickness would definitely be my biggest challenge! My family and I have already discussed a bit what we could do if I do happen to move interstate for uni, including staying connected through video calls and coming home during holidays. I would also need to try my best to make new friends and stay connected, since I don't really know anyone interstate! ... View more

Oh hi @Lost_Space_Explorer5 , sorry I didn't see your post! Moving out for uni would definitely be a big change! Since I'm so reliant on my family, I would miss having food cooked for me, or my clothes washed, or watching the fridge magically restock itself! I would also miss talking to my family all the time, which is something I do to relieve stress. Although, it would also give me a lot of freedom and help me become more independent. Not to mention, it would be fun to explore a new city! ... View more

Adding to what everyone has said, I think it's really important to consider who you'll be living with! Whether it be a partner, or some friends, you want them to be trustworthy people who you're comfortable with. Please try not to move out alone! ... View more

Thanks @WheresMySquishy ! It'll be a big change, but I'll try my best to adapt! ... View more

I think it's different for everyone regarding when they feel like they should move out! Some people feel they need to move out when they don't want to be under the prying eyes of their parents all the time, while others move out when they feel old enough and mature enough. Whatever the reason, the urge to move out comes at different times for everyone. Or it could be that people have no choice but to move out. For example , I am potentially starting university interstate next year, which would require me to move out  ... View more

Thanks @Jess1-RO ! Exams being over feels like a large weight has been lifted off my shoulders! Finally some peace and quiet after a crazy year  ... View more

Of course not @MemphisBelle! Age is just a number (which is said a lot, but is actually true)! Your age shouldn't define what you choose to do or choose not to do. There are people over 30 who consider themselves young adults! The most important thing to remember is to stay happy, which can only be possible through your hobbies. Nobody said anything about an age limit on any hobby, so you shouldn't set one for yourself! ... View more

Hello everyone! I've been wanting to become a builder for a long time, but school has got in the way. Now that HSC is over, here I am!   How did you first hear about ReachOut and when did you decide to get involved on the forums as a user?I saw ReachOut advertised on social media, which led me here to this forum. After the slight mental health issues I've been through, as well as seeing other friends go through more serious mental health issues, I decided that mental health was something that I wanted to work towards improving, which is why I decided to help on these forums. What's your favourite post thread?The "Tell us one good thing about your 2020" thread! After what has been an unprecedented and tumultuous year, it's so nice to see what people have achieved or been up to during these crazy times! Why did you decide to become a Builder?I've seen so many of my friends and classmates struggle with their mental health, and that has become even more apparent this year. Improving mental health amongst young people has slowly developed into a passion of mine, which is why I wanted to undergo the training to become a Builder! What do you do during the day (Study? Work? Hunt ghosts? Fight Crime? Taste cupcakes?)?Used to be study, but now that's over! (Jokes, next year I'll be back to studying). Other than that, I'm mostly a family man, and I like to hang out with my family and friends. If not, you may see me gaming or playing instruments. Do you have any weird hobbies (Train a rubber duck army? Teach lizards Spanish? Learn how to the master the recorder?)?Not sure if any of my hobbies are "weird" really, unless video games or playing instruments is weird! Although, I do have a somewhat weird habit of changing my wallpaper nearly everyday. Keeps things fresh I guess. What's you're all time favourite TV show?Don't have one for now! ... View more

I have exams coming up too! The stress is totally relatable. One of the methods I personally use to overcome stress is to simply hang out and talk with my family members. I find that it takes my mind of school work! This is particularly effective if you have a lot of siblings, but even if you don't, talking to your parents about anything can be a great way to relieve stress! ... View more

Of course you can! ReachOut may be primarily targeted at young people, but that doesn't mean you can't still read everything on here! ... View more