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Indieboy14
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29-10-2020
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29-10-2020
01:13 AM
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Thankyou everyone for the kind words and support, this is my first time reaching out to an online community and it really warms my heart to see so many people genuinely sharing their experiences and offering advice :) I've settled things a lot in my mind over the last week or so, mostly by refocusing my own mindset and reassuring myself that it will work out alright. I'm definitely feeling a lot better about the whole situation, so thanks again :)
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24-10-2020
10:54 AM
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Hi Abderian, The idea of settling the situation definitely resonates with me. I want to be able to enjoy things I used to enjoy and can't right now because they're stuck on my mind. I think the main problem I have with discussing continuing the relationship when I get back, is that I don't want to lock them down to anything, or ruin either of our holidays because we're stuck thinking about each other. But honestly this is probably overthinking and I think your advice is really good so I'll try talking about this with them :) Thankyou ♥️
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24-10-2020
04:13 AM
Apologies in advance, this kinds of feels petty compared to a lot more significant problems but imma put it out there cos it's how I feel. Over the last couple of months I've met someone and we've been on a few dates and I guess the unknown of where we were going got me in a mood where I just wasn't enjoying things I used to enjoy and was only enjoying myself when I was around them. So I ended up telling them how I felt and thankfully they feel the same way which is great, but the timing is awful because I have to head home for like 2+ months in about two weeks time. So basically now I'm stuck in a case of I want to go further romantically with this person but also don't want to because we won't see each other for like 2-3 months. I've told myself I'm just going to enjoy hanging out with them more casually for the next two weeks but the underlying want to take things further is kind of eating away at me. It's almost putting me back into the mood before I told them how I felt, which was not great because I was just centring my life around them. I am pretty content with myself and really want to hang out with my friends and what not, but just can't stop thinking about her. So I guess what are other people's experience with this? And how can I not think about them as much when I'm trying to do thing in my life that don't involve them?
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