This is such an amazing idea! A hurtful word that has been used to describe me is 'pushy'. I believe people think i am pushy as i like to be organised and i like to help people be organised! I believe the word 'pushy' should be changed into 'organised' which is quite a positive attribute i think to have :D ... View more

Hey there! @clarii3105  What you are going through occurs so often you wouldn't even believe! Most people that got to uni change their degrees or take some time off uni to relax which then extends their time at uni. I attend uni and i think everyone i know has taken time off or has failed units and had to extend or have decided to do uni part time - making their degree longer! I guess thats why uni is considered better than high school, you have more freedom to pick and choose how you do your life. Don't feel bad about extending your degree as its the best option for you and your health and in the future. I'm sure that you will look back an be thankful that you chose to extend your time at uni. I know at first my friends were all worried about the lengthy changes but in the end time flew and now they are happy thats how everything panned out! :D ... View more

Hi @rainbowcats157 , how are you going? have you made a decision yet about whether or not to quit your casual job? i'd love to hear all about whats going on in your life at the moment. i hope things are looking up for you :D :D :D ... View more

Hiii thereeee, just seeing how you are going...how are you feeling now that you have had a bit more time to process? xx ... View more

Hey @CCZ how ware you feeling? How are you and your girlfriend going? (hug) ... View more

Here's a funny photo that might make you feel better @Tiny_leaf  :D ... View more

Og gosh, this whole situation sucks so much. I know that there isn't much you can do in this situation, but stay strong and lets hope that everything works out :D ... View more

Wow, this must be such a heart aching experience for you, I am so sorry. I know it must be hard now, but im so proud of you for opening up and reflecting on the experience. That is the first step to moving forward. things will get better, even if it does take a long time. I believe you will see the light at the end of the tunnel :D And your mum will be an angel looking over you always xxx ... View more

This is why i love this forum, people who can't gain support from their friends or family can turn to Reachout for support from others who do genuinely care :D ... View more

In general it is very important to respect people, without respect for others, you cannot develop sincere relationships with people that are trustworthy. Spirituality is different for all but should definitely be respected. ... View more

Hi @Hicks , Hmm seems as though you are having a tough time deciding what to do. I was just wondering what you want out of seeing him? and do you feel comfortable with whats happening? ... View more

Hi @MayMay31,  Seems as though there is a lot going on here. I know that you are struggling with her behavours in recent times, but have you asked he how she is? Maybe you should have a talk to her, maybe she has a reason for her behaviours? I think a chat will give lots of clarity to both of you :D   ... View more

I'm so sorry that your work has put you in this situation! :( You said that you wanted to quit, but in a way that is gracious. I myself have quit a job before, and the best option is to tell the truth and say that you don't believe it is the job for you and that you are wanting to move on. Managers admire the truth and I believe that if you tell the truth, they will respect your decision. and like they said, they will be able to find a replacement quite easily, so you should not feel guilty for leaving at all! it is the best option for you and your health :D ... View more

hmm that does make it a bit tricky... There are lots of forums and apps that have been made specifically for different interests and specifically for meeting like minded people. 'Making Authentic Friendships' is a good app for finding friends with disabilities that understand you and what you are going through, whilst there are also friendship apps such as 'bumblebff' or friender! Maybe try some of these :D ... View more

hi there! Im sorry that you are going through such a tough time atm... I know you feel like you don't have anyone to talk to, but I'm sure your girlfriend loves you for you, and she has seen you in this state before and she has stuck by you for 4 year which is pretty cool :D Maybe talk to her and see if she can help you out, i'm sure she would be happy to, even if the topic is "depressing"!  ... View more

Hi there! I have many LGBTQ+ friends and i've asked them how they find people... Many say that it just happens, sometimes when you are least expecting it, you meet someone you really like! others say that they meet people through friends or through online forums for LGBTQ+ individuals. I know it may seem really hard and it is a bit disheartening, but you will find someone perfect for you one day :) ... View more

I totally understand your pain, human interaction is a tricky one... :/ You may feel like an outsider that doesn't belong, although trust me from my experience, most of the time you will be overthinking humans and their behaviours towards you. Maybe you just dont have a lot in common with the people you are interacting with? Is there maybe an interest that you have that you can find some like-minded people to socialise with? I'm sure someone enjoys your company! even if it doesn't appear that way..:D ... View more

hi @cheesysmile :) Seems as though a lot of different things are affecting you right now, which sucks... What would you like to focus on first? is your aim to move out of home? if so, i know it is sometimes really hard to get a job, but im sure that if you keep trying, the perfect job will come up! Maybe you could try do a course such as a barista course that will help you get closer to employment! Persistence is key! goodluckk xxxx ... View more

Having a job during year 12 is tough, its even more tough when your employer doesnt respect that you cant work certain shifts because of school and transport... I understand that you really dont want to quit another job, but you always need to put yourself first and your health. Because your job is causing you stress and making it hard for you to study, i think what i would do is quit and try and find a job that respects your casual employer rights. When you find the right job, im sure you will easily be able to juggle both work and school. Good luck with your decision. :) ... View more

Hellooooo...Today I practiced self care by laying in bed for a couple of hours with my chihuahua x jack russell doggo. It was the simple day kind of day that I needed, and my dog Lyla really enjoyed the cuddles too!!  ... View more