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Doni99
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24-10-2018
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24-10-2018
06:00 PM
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omg hahahahah Man that would be so awkward! This actually made me smile @sweet_baking! :)
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24-09-2018
09:26 AM
1 Kudo
Hey @mrmusic Thank you so much! It's nice to hear you know me by that tread -and that it makes you laugh - that tread technically reflects my life! :P hehehe
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22-09-2018
11:49 AM
Before I finally work on my assessment :P Just want to add this @Logan2971 Avoid intoxicants. They are like white flour. No nutritional benefit, just empty carbs. In order to heal from sorrow, we need to ensure we are conscious - alcohol really doesn't help! Have tea instead! No coffee, too much caffeine - experienced the consequences of it during the past few months hehe :P #studentlife Exercise and a healthy diet can help relieve your pain. #keepstrongbro you can do it!
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22-09-2018
11:41 AM
Hey @Logan2971 bro, Okay first off, I have been single since birth hehe :P So obviously I have no experience but I felt like I say something to hopefully make you feel better and help you in some way. You seem like a committed man and I praise you for that because this society has less of that type of good hearted people. Most people handle relationships like changing clothes, not committed and fake. Your sorrow shows your seriousness to your past relationship hence it is obviously hard to move on because you genuinely had feelings for her. In reality, nothing stays permanent. This is something we have to face, and it is hard. It took a while for me to realise this, especially in relation to friendships. I noticed some of my friends distancing from me after high school and that was frustrating and sad but as days go past, it gets better as we meet more people and when circumstances change. Don't ever think what you are experiencing is a permanent state bro. You will come out of it, not sure when but you will. You need to be strong bro and keep fighting to get out of this. Like everyone has said, try yourself to distract your mind until you are fully healed. For example going to a gym - when you exercise it is really good for your mind and health, when I worked out I feel like I accomplished something which may sound weird hehe but yeah I think exercise helps to reduce stress. You should also hang out with more friends - just try to give yourself no reason to think of her. Understand that you deserve better and focus on the good things you have. You must have a lovely family, hang out with your mom. I am not sure if I am making sense but hopefully you get the gist. I shall add to this reply later - need to do my lame ol assessment! :P Anyways keep strong bro, you can do this! RO is the best place where very nice people are! RO helped me in high school so never forget about us! :D
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22-09-2018
11:17 AM
1 Kudo
@litgym Yay another Mcvities fan! :D I get excited when they get discounted in Woolies and Coles! We tend to buy more than one when the price gets very low! :P Really? hehehhe I can relate!
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22-09-2018
11:14 AM
2 Kudos
@litgym hahah that's cute! :P That's so random! I am sure I did that before, saying something so unrelated to what I was intending to say!
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22-09-2018
11:10 AM
2 Kudos
If you could control any element, what would it be? Hard question! Perhaps the ability to control the earth e.g. making houses using stones! What is your favourite snack? I actually got manyyyy but biscuits is regular snack! I like cream biscuits but they are so unhealthy :P What are you going to do during your holidays (if you have any this month)? I have a mid-term break next week and I will be studying. Nothing much will happen apart from being with my mom who values my presence <3 What gets you motivated? I actually have issues being motivated :/ It has become a trend. Not a good sign but if someone assigns me a task I genuinely like I would so do it e.g. graphic design project. whats your favourite song to dance and sing to? I don't dance nor sing to it lol but my favourite song is by Basshunter called Russia Privjet (Chromeboy remix)
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22-09-2018
11:06 AM
1 Kudo
@litgym You like digestive biscuits too?! Me tooooooo! Most of my family loves digestive biscuits, my dad is not a big fan tho! :P Which brand do you like? Mcvities? Their biscuits are so good, I like the chocolate dipped ones :P
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22-09-2018
11:01 AM
1 Kudo
My Recent Awkward Moments Getting on to the university shuttle bus and having the feeling of being watched while I walk inside to find a seat That moment when you ran out of ideas of what to talk about to a friend who haven't met for a while I thought I saw someone who went to my high school but turns out they were someone who looks so similar to them! I realized this when the tutor addressed them with a different name! I have a dress and it is knee length. Somehow, because of the fabric it goes up :/ So I have to constantly pull it down! How annoying! [Okay this was not recent!] When I did this business law unit last year, my tutor was like praising my hair and it was so weird :/ Considering this tutor was a male and was old enough to be my grandpa! :O Fortunately I changed classes haha :P
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22-09-2018
10:56 AM
1 Kudo
Thank you @Lan-RO for your warm welcome! I appreciate this site existence and you are all doing a great deed for helping us cope in difficult time! :D Speaking of awkward moments, do you have any recent ones? :)
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21-09-2018
04:48 PM
1 Kudo
yayyyyy thank you so much @litgym! Glad you liked my quote hehe :D
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21-09-2018
04:46 PM
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Ohhh it is your first post! :D Welcome to R.O! Trust me, this is a great place! I have been a member for more than three years! A great bunch of people who are very nice and supportive! Warm welcomes to you @disney_fan :)
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21-09-2018
04:45 PM
3 Kudos
Wass up peeps! Glad to be back on RO after nearly 2 years! :O Random facts about me I like writing my own inspirational quotes I got a assessment due today :/ I study best by drawing mind maps I massage my mother's legs nearly everyday which helps her sleep comfortably at night :) I have black hair
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21-09-2018
04:40 PM
2 Kudos
I love quotes and poems! In fact I write quotes on my blog! Here is one of my quotes :) I was in uni a couple of days ago and realised how negative people can really change your behaviour and mentality. This quote was inspired by my experience.
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21-09-2018
04:34 PM
Hey Ray! :D I'm Doni! I can so understand what you mean, it sounds sketchy to meet people online. It can either go right or wrong but mostly wrong based on the stories I heard on Youtube. I have been single since birth :P heheh so obviously cannot give you personal advice or experiences, I havn't use dating websites either but recently I came across some true scary storytimes of people who used tinder on youtube. The thing is people these days ain't that honest hence, fill up profiles with exaggerations of what they look etc. If you search up 'scary tinder stories' etc on youtube, there are honestly plenty of sketchy true stories people have experienced.
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21-09-2018
04:17 PM
2 Kudos
Hi Sans! I created this post in 2016 and I decided to visit RO today and I just want to thank you for your comforting messages and how you helped me in a time of need. Thank you so much. Helping someone cope with their problems is a great deed. I am better than I was before in 2016. I managed to transfer to a on campus university which is so much better. I have a handful of friends and we moved to a bigger house where I have my own room. Things have been way better than it was once before. Thank you so much. I really appreciate. Kind regards, Doni :)
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21-09-2018
04:15 PM
4 Kudos
Wass up everyone! This is Doni! :D Not sure if you guys remember me from a couple of years ago! It is probably close to 2 years since I last went on R.O. I miss this place, it has been the best platform to vent out my problems and seek advice from a lovely group of people who I can call my friendly cyber pals! :) This place doesn't feel like a place to seek advice, it feels like a social media network! Thank you all for being very nice to be and supporting me since 2013! Thank you for all the lovely admins! You guys are awesome! ~ Doni99
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03-08-2016
08:57 PM
1 Kudo
I am happy to see everyone still sharing their moments in this trend! Keep it up everyone! =) I'll share some recent awkward moments of mine now; I graduated high school last year and I saw someone I know from high school and she saw me but I tried to show her that I didn't see her because I don't want to talk to her although she is a nice person so I end up randomly looking at a random direction which may have looked so obvious LOOOOOL There was a Pharmacy girl and we always ask her questions and stuff when we go to the pharmacy. One day, we saw her walking in the mall and we smiled her because obviously we recognised her and she looked scared looool I don't think she recognised us AHAHAH I came across a classmate from last year when I walking with my mom around the neighbourhood and for some reason I felt so awkward talking to her - I havn't talked to anyone from my school for a long time and it feels weird talking to people, man I feel so socially isolated! I met a couple of kids from my school and I was talking to them like a few metres away from my home (apartment) and they asked where I live and I accidently pointed at a appointment which wasn't my one ooooppppsss Felt awkward to actually point out where my apartment is actually is!
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02-08-2016
10:42 PM
Hi everyone, I'm currently doing a online degree and because I am staying home and studying and socialising less with real people, I am more comfortable with being on social media and interacting with cyber people. The friends I had previously (in real life) are not very interested in being my friend and I am usually the one who makes the effort to keep in touch. I decided to not talk to them until they talk to me because I am always the person who starts the conversation. I use Google+ to interact with others. I use less of other social media platforms. I have a lot of online friends but I do not talk to them that much - just a simple comment under their posts here and there. There have been numerous instances when some friends decided to talk to me via hangouts (direct message, pretty much a private message). Before I usually rejected their invite request because I don't know them and I feel weird talking to someone I don't even know and I have learnt alot of cyber safety and stuff. Recently two people (two of my G+ friends I never met ever) started talking to me on hangouts. The first one, let's say her name is M and the second one L. I have been friends with M for more than 6 months, she is okay - we don't really talk that much but recently she has been commenting and she decided to private message me. L in the other hand, I just recently followed her and I've seen her reshared some of my posts. She started to private message me yesturday. So did M (which is pretty werid lol). Both of them asked my name and I said my nickname, indicating that's my name for short. They asked me where I live, I said the country I live in, not specific location. They asked my nationality and told them. I now regret this but nothing really suspicous has happened yet. They keep on messaging me and their comments are fine, not dodgey but I don't like, I guess I am not that used to talking to strangers personally. Since I am aware of what happened in the news related to cyber stuff, I am I guess more anxious which is making me suspcious. I decided to block them, I feel bad though - I know it is mean but I don't feel comfortable enough to trust them because they might not be the people they actually appear too. I don't know.... It is indeed complicated lol What do you guys think? Thank you, Doni
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17-06-2016
10:24 PM
Hello @Sans-RO Your help gave me a strength, and yes it did help! Thank you so much for that. I will try my best to avoid such negative thoughts. :)
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17-06-2016
10:22 PM
My favourite fruit is watermelon! Man I love it so much! :D Dad even brought a whole watermelon for me AHAAHH Who would you rather be, a doctor or a marketer? :D
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17-06-2016
12:17 PM
@N1ghtW1ng Lol I had a exam a few weeks ago and it was okay (hopefully!) Thanks for the good luck What do you do if a spider jumps on your back? (me silently smiling)
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17-06-2016
12:12 PM
1 Kudo
@Sans-RO Hi Sans, Apologies for the late reply! I settled down now, it happens ocassionally pretty much when I lose it and just feel horrible. I am coping now. I didn't talk to my parents or siblings about it, they did sound suspicious and know I am not stable psychologyly but it's going okay I guess. Thanks again for checking up on me! I'll update on my 'progress' as the days go by! :)
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12-06-2016
01:57 PM
I had big hopes of transferring to on campus university this year but my sicknesses are getting worse. Even then I doubt I will get in because my grades for the two courses are probably not good. That’s the reason why I didn’t get into uni. I am too dumb, not suitable for uni. I lack knowledge, skill, looks everything. I wonder if I will stay like this for forever, limping around, experiencing pain stretching in my right thigh. Been to the specialist doctor for more than two times and no proper solution. I don’t think we will move houses this year nor next year, even if we did I will not have a bedroom to myself to cry alone, to meditate, to be alone. My sister thinks I am in a bad mood or angry at something but I am actually very sad and she stormed at me thinking I was preparing for making rice with angry intentions. I felt horrible last night and slept early because I can’t focus or feel like doing anything. Although I slept at 10pm I woke around 1am, disturbed from my sleep by the conversations of my sister and mother. Their conversations did not end even when my sister came to bed and turned off the lights. I couldn’t bear the conversations especially because I was crying in my sleep. We unfortunately sleep in the same room, my house has two bedrooms and have no space. I couldn’t bear the conversations so I got my blanket and pillow and headed for the living room to sleep there. My sister said angrily that I am mean. That made me more collapse, I cried for a decent period of time in the living room alone. I am so used to crying and hiding my feelings alone. Even if I cry around everyone, everyone does not understand me and think I bet I am a mess. I honestly feeling like killing myself but one part of my mind is stopping me. I know this is a downfall to commit suicide but I only see that as an option. I give others advice to stay strong in such difficult situations but I fail to give myself such advice. I am honestly a failure; I didn’t get into university. I got no university offer. I managed to do a university degree from a private institution that offers online degrees especially for those who work. Most of the people in my grade last year got a place in university, I obviously got no offer and cried. My sister helped me do the application for that private institution and now because of my sister’s help I am doing some sort of university which is actually recognised. If she didn’t do that I don’t know what I would be doing. Going to tafe. If I went to tafe, I probably will ruin the reputation of my family. I feel like a living failure. What triggered my unhappiness yesterday was after seeing the photos from one of our cousins’ weddings. Everyone there looked so pretty and good. People may think I am jealous, I myself don’t know what it is. May it is. I look at myself and think I am not beautiful at all. I am a diseased peasant. A jealous, ugly, unintelligent, useless, immoral, horrible peasant. I met my family don’t want me if I wasn’t related to them. They probably have to accept me because I am unfortunately part of the family. I will like dying. I know I will go to hell after death, where I belong. Where I will burn in hell for the bad deeds I did this life and previous lives. I belong there. Everyone who does a bad deed belongs there. I don’t want to share my feelings with anyone else because I don’t want to put a problem in their minds. Everyone has problems but I don’t want others to get more problems because of a unfortunate person like me. My family does not understand, they try but it is useless. I have no proper friends, they ocassioanlly message me, they are too busy. Pretty much I have no friends, they don't really make a effort to message me unless I message first. I am stuck at home, studying online in a small house with no place to stay alone. I have to hide my emotions cuz no one understands, no one cares, they have their own problems and I just got to adapt to that. The desk I used to study if where my brother and dad sleeps and it is so distracting because my brother regularly opens the door usually very nosily and it angers me. He does it no matter how much I tell him. I am sick of studying because of the distractions. I can even hear the stupid drama my parents watch in the living room. I am so fed up. Being patient doesn't do anything to me. I am regularly looking for homes for us to move to next year but it is useless because I don't know if we can move to such good houses. I am so sick of everything. I went to the doctor and explainly briefly about my problems and she gave me a plan to meet a psychologist. I didn't want to because I think it will be useless. I went to the counseller in high school, judging by her it is pretty useless. There's no solution for me apart from just bearing it and being patient. I can't bear it anymore. I am losing my mind. I only see one option and it is being in the dirt.
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15-05-2016
07:16 PM
Thank you everyone for checking up on me :) Things are going okay I guess but trying to study is difficult for me. My house is very small, I only have 3 options: study in the living room, study in my bro's room or my sister's room. All options are so unrealistic. I can't focus in any of the rooms. The living room is always loud, there's no way to limit the sound. I am sick of migrating from room to room. I just want to sit in one place and study. The last few days it has been difficult for me to start my essay which is due in a few weeks. I also have a exam which is after the essay is due. I have less than 20 days to prepare for the essay and the exam. Because there is no permanent place to study, I procrastionate alot. I am just so sick of staying home and trying to study, my parents and siblings try their best to make it easier for me to study but it's so unrealistic for me. I don't know what to do. My parents won't let me go to libraries which are far away. I feel like I am stuck in one place. I'm not sure if I will get in to mid year intake for the uni I applied. Not sure if my results will be good enough. I am just so sick of home. Even if I get in, the issue at home remains the same. I am just so sick of this and most of the time just cry alone. I am just so frustrated. There is no point telling my feelings to my parents or sibs, we can't move right now although my parents know my need. We are planning to move next year to a bigger house but I can't wait that long. I don't want to wait that long to study properly at home. I don't know what to do. There's literally no one to help me resolve this issue :( I am just so sick of everything, I feel so depressed.
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08-05-2016
04:22 PM
1 Kudo
Um... sorry for the lonnnggggg message! :) I can't explain that much in a paragraph LOOL XD
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08-05-2016
04:17 PM
Hey bro XD You honestly have come to the right place. I joined this forum in year 10 and these guys here have helped me feel much better to the things I have experienced at school and life in general. I finished year 12 last year and hopefully some of my tips may help you! I had a similar experience. I kept switching between tutors cuz the way they teach me does not always suit me. I sometimes yawn too and always question why I'm with them! ;) This might be the case to you. If you don't learn much or can't focus when being with your sister's best friend, you should definately find another tutor. Trust me, there are many other tutors out there - you just need to search deep and see who teaches you the way you want or teaches you in a way which grabs your attention! ;) You are like me too, I want to do well in school but can't put the mind into it. I totally understand cuz that's what I felt too. Since you are in year 11, I suggest you to not think about what happens after high school cuz when I was in high school, those thoughts really distracted me as well as stressed me. Don't worry about it now, think about it when it comes. Think about the present moment :) The thing you should focus now is studying for your assessments and exams in Year 11 and 12. If studying is the issue, you should find out what studying style suits you. You could be a visual learner, learn better by writing diagram or mindmaps. I am a visual learner and I wrote mind maps before a assessment because it it allows me to remember better than writing it down. Identify your studying style now, before year 12. Don't be concerned on the university rank however, aim high. Don't aim low. Put in 100% for every assessment. Those who do well in year 11 tend to do much more better in year 12. You can do it! Be confident in yourself. Remember to have a break after studying cuz without breaks you mind goes all wobbley! ;) I hated studying too LOL but once I did it, I kind of enjoyed it. I guess you have to do it multiple times to like it and make success your motivation. I hated maths lol but now I like it, I started doing it and then realised it ain't that bad. When you invest time on subjects you tend to like it more than not just doing it. As a student in year 11, atar does not matter yet. Focus on studying! My parents does not let me go out with my friends and I know how that sucks! But I guess the reason behind that is so that you have time to study. If your parents don't want you to go to parties, maybe why don't you ask them to go out for studying with your friends? That might sounds lame lol but studying with someone is great! Bro, it doesn't matter if you are in the lowest classes. That does not define you and your ability. There's plently in my cohort who was in like generally low classes and got a atar above 90. It doesn't matter what class you stay in, as long as you do well in that class. Stay strong, these annoying and frustrating experiences are not permanent. Once you start to think more positive and think more confidently, those feelings will burst away. Ignore those people who say 'Asians are smart'! Who cares what they think? They won't be there after high school! Treat them as motivations to do well! You are very capble bro, do not give up. Keep strong. I'm not sure if my advice is that helpful for you but hopefully it will make you feel better :) - Doni :)
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08-05-2016
02:09 PM
1 Kudo
Thank you so much everyone for replying! I really apprecaite your comments and advice :) I decided to apply for mid year uni and waiting for offers now. I'm not sure if I can get in because I havn't finished two subjects yet but l'll see what happens. I enjoy doing uni online, it's very flexible but it's not realistic with what is going on at home. Hopefully my decision to do study on campus does me some good and gives me some peace to study! I guess I will feel better mentally when I meet actual people on campus. Let's see how I go ;) Thank you everyone for giving me your support, I really appreciate the existance of this forum!
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19-04-2016
09:08 PM
1 Kudo
Glad that everyone is sharing their awkward moments regularly! ;) Here's my recent ones; - When I was in the mall, I confronted a girl who was in my school in a lower grade. It took me three glances at her to realise it was someone I know and actually tutored at school lol and was about to talk to her but I didn't cuz we already went past looking at each other awkwardly..... - My desk is front of the window and there's a footpath where all residents in the apartment complex walks to get to their house. I was looking at the people who went past and they looked straight at me and I didn't know where to look LOOOOL
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19-04-2016
06:40 PM
Hi everyone, I would like to get advice. I don't have anyone to talk to about this. I am feeling pretty down. I graduated high school last year and started my university degree online. In high school I had a small handful of friends but now they don't really make a effort to talk to me. They used to live near my house but now they moved further into the city which is very far away. We keep in touch by texting. They reply to my messages but it doesn't feel as if they are interested in talking to me. They reply as if they have to. My friendship with my friends feels one way. I feel as if I'm the only one who makes a effort to talk and keep the friendship. All my friends have started university and tafe on campus, I'm the only one who is studying online. I understand that they are busy with their studies but even when they have time I don't think they make a effort to talk to me. I have a sound relationship with my family but it would be good to talk to someone other than a family member and more of my age. Most of my friends message me when they need something. I feel pretty lame. All I do is staying home, trying to study and have no one to talk to. It's not very practical to talk to my siblings. They are great people but it's not the same. I am considering transfering my course to a course on campus because I can't tollorate staying home and not socialising. I can't study properly at home anyway because of the lack of space and noise. It's a very difficult postion for me. To make it worse, on top of the lack of friends and lack of space to study - I am not feeling well in health and regularly taking tablets, I feel pretty depressed and in fact proably have been depressed for more than 4 years. Before 4 years, I was at my old school where I had a huge friendship network. Once I moved to my new school, I had diffuclty making proper friends and have been bullied which may have caused my depression. It sucks, it's complicated. I never had a solution to my problems. I just keep on walking in life with no answer and my emotions being the same. :(
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