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Hicks
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07-03-2015
18-11-2019
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18-11-2019
02:12 PM
Since having herpes for 2 years, I've been considering doing a range of different injections (nothing illegal) to at least get it to a stage where I can actually kiss someone on the mouth without spreading it. If possible I want to cure it but I'm not too sure if it would be dangerous to take olive leaf extract and herbs.
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18-11-2019
02:02 PM
@Bee I have been considering injecting different medications so that I wouldn't have to worry about letting dates know about it. I'm just a bit worried about if if certain medications would be dangerous. I'm not talking about illegal drugs just things you can get over the counter and maybe some herbs as well while I eat all the trigger foods and a lot of healthy food as well.
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12-03-2019
06:59 PM
1 Kudo
@gina-RO when I haven't been at home I've been staying with a guy I've been seeing recently and thanks for the advice I really appreciate it.
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11-03-2019
10:02 PM
We used to only have one dog and that wasn't bad as we could keep the back door open all the time and he wouldn't escape; but since we got another dog a few years ago she's only been getting pregnant, escaping and constantly barking. I feel like I can't live at home anymore as the dogs keep going to the toilet inside and no one cleans it up even if I haven't been home for a week which often I haven't been at home that much as it's just disgusting. My family doesn't even do the simple housework like cleaning the bathroom, toilet and they leave dishes for me to catch up on for when I haven't been home. It's getting to a point where I'm not eating properly because it's all through the kitchen and there's only so much it can actually clean up. I only eat properly when I'm not home but I always dread having to come back to the mess. It's really unhygienic but I haven't been able to get my license to be able to get a job and get out of there as all my money is spent on food and my parents won't take me for driving lessons. I just kind of want to know some options on how to get out. I don't want to move in with a guy permanently because I don't want to be thrown into another domestic situation it's just at this stage it's really what I want to do, I'm constantly sick and I know my health is only going to go down more if I stay. I kinda don't really know how to get out safely.
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02-06-2018
02:28 AM
I have had herpes type 2 for 6 months and type 1 for 3 months. I've just been finding it hard to find a nice guy because I have to tell them before they even kiss me now. I dated a guy I met from tinder he said he didn't care about me having it but he didn't seem to care about me either. He always hung out with his friends, when I came over to see him he would hang out with his friends. He was going to cross dress for his birthday. I asked him "what if guys hit on you?" he said "so..." for someone that's bi it wasn't a great response. He also had messages from other girls pop up on Facebook that he'd immediately close when he was around me. Most of the time when I tell people, they treat me like the plague and it kinda makes me want to give up and go back to the guy that gave it to me originally. I'm not even sure where I'd meet anyone to date. I tried positive singles but the guys on there are only after sex. I don't have any friends I hang out with I don't leave the house unless I have work which is only on weekends
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02-06-2018
01:57 AM
Yeah it is pretty annoying they won't help me. My parents basically only have cereals, milk for their coffees and there's really not much in the fridge, cupboard or freezer. It's all set aside for meals so if we touch it for lunches we get in trouble. I have asked them to buy more food and my mum just thinks I'm attacking her. How am I attacking her when I state the facts that there isn't anything to put on sandwiches? We have no salad vegetables or really anything. It's so frustrating that the food we do have is set aside for meals that we can't have for lunch or anything.
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01-06-2018
01:40 AM
Still not really getting anywhere, I need a job so I can buy food to eat as my parents fail to buy much food. Some days I don't eat at all and it sucks I just want to get a job already so I can eat properly but centerlink won't help me at all because my parents have assets
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18-11-2017
10:52 PM
yeah I have been down to them but without a place that can get me work experience in a bar I will not progress with my applications. As I only have waitress experience I can't get much as I have tried to get a job in retail as well which essentially is the same as what I'm doing. I have changed my resume multiple times as well. I think people just don't like me to be honest. They probably know I have no friends and care too much about their image. I feel it's more they just don't like me than anything else. I don't really have good communication skills as I rarely talk to people. I only talk to my boyfriend and people at work but it hurts when they get cross when I serve them as I'm not indian. England actually has courses to help people get into work why don't we have that here for everyone?
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18-11-2017
05:08 PM
I've been looking for work for a year now. I have tried asking places if they could give me work experience with no response. I don't have any retail experience, no bar experience. I have only worked at one place for the past 2 years. My pay is only $13 an hour and I can't afford to go out and look for work. My parents never taught me how to drive so that is a problem as well. It just keeps getting me down, I actually want a job unlike most of the doll bludgers they should at least help me I need another job. I can't afford to go out as often and that's only going to have me still stuck in the same position without any friends like I've been for the past 6 years. I can't even fake my happiness almost everyday I've been crying because I know I'm so alone and no one is helping me get a job I've changed my resume my resume, been to a few interviews but they only wasted my time as I didn't have the bar skills. They lied to me, I never stated I had bar skills in my resume. What am I meant to do lie about working in a bar just to get a job? I already lie about hanging out with friends (they don't even exist) why can't someone give me a chance? How do I get help when Centrelink won't help me unless I am eligible to take the tax payers money? I try so hard only to get no where, I've been more down since I got a boyfriend like I'm never going to have friends. I was used to going out by myself but now the thought of it makes me feel like crying
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18-05-2017
12:31 AM
I have seen a therapist before but they always make me feel really uncomfortable. I have tried meet up but I'm a bit nervous about meeting new people. As I said earlier he is not my bf, he is my Fwb and I don't really want to impede on his life too much. He is a fair bit older than me, he's 22 I'm 17 I don't want it to look like he brought his sister along. And well he knows I lied about my age, I felt guilty and told him my real age. At the moment I am not ready to date but I'd like to be able to date.
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14-05-2017
02:06 AM
I have been seeing this guy for a while, we're not dating though. I am don't have a social life at all, he's fulfilling all my fantasies but I don't like him seeing me depressed but I've been so depressed lately and I don't want him to see me like this. I just feel like such a failure I just want to know places I can meet people to hang out with, like is there an app I can use? I've tried a few but I've still had no social life for 5 years, I'm still 17. Like strangers always think I'm such a nice person but no one ever hangs out with me. I really want to date but I don't want to date unless I have a social life. I'm not sure with my current situation anyone would really want to associate with me either. I'm disgusting, but I don't want to be keeping a massive secret my whole life. He knows my secret but I don't tell many people. I was also woundering if I should talk to a therapist but I feel they'd tell me stuff I already know and I don't want all this on my medical records. They'd probably asses me as emotionally unstable. Like I know I should have seen someone earlier but I feel uncomfortable at headspace. I feel uncomfortable talking to a female about my issues, but I don't want to talk to a guy either. I find most counselors to be intimidating and I don't open up. I need the "I care about you're issues and won't stare at you the whole time" approach. I know I can't fake it for much longer and I need to see a therapist but I just don't know how to open up about it when it always feels like an interrogation. I can't do it but I need to
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31-01-2017
11:12 PM
I already read that, I've been to the doctors and I'm going to my GP on Friday for the results and also to get the pill. As I often have unprotected sex and just don't want to get pregnant anytime soon as I'm still 18 this year and he's turning 20. @Bree-RO
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31-01-2017
10:06 PM
I talked to him but it's not confirmed whether I have chlamydia yet. I mean before I was sexually active I had similar symptoms and they didn't know what it was @Bree-RO
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31-01-2017
09:31 PM
Well I was told I can't have sex with him everyday as that's what they believe caused my problem. They still don't know what the cause is. I've had similar symptoms before I was sexually active as well but they still don't know what's wrong @Bree-RO
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31-01-2017
08:07 PM
I'm not ok, I just came back from the hospital. I'm OK, that's life though. I actually don't even know what me and my fwb are tbh. He wants to take me dancing and move out with me.
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29-01-2017
10:50 PM
Haha, nevermind my bf dumped me and now I'm seeing a fwb every night. Sneaking out to see him, cuz it's the only way I can see him. My dad thinks I have a boyfriend so on Friday when I go dancing with him I just say I'm out with my boyfriend
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16-01-2017
10:30 PM
That's not really my main concern. It's more that I don't know him too well yet and I don't want any peer pressure
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16-01-2017
10:15 PM
I mean my grades just slipped even further and I wasn't going to school as often. After high school I realized it does get better and I have a few friends I've met online and through tafe courses I've done
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16-01-2017
02:05 AM
That's just high school really, I had friends in primary school. However when I started high school I had no one, my friends from primary school ditched me and the guys harassed me most days. My mum never let me move schools so I was stuck at the same school since grade 8. In grade 10 my grades went from A's to D's I just couldn't focus when I'd been left out of everything and was ignored when I asked for help. So I just gave up
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16-01-2017
01:00 AM
Well, we met off an app called whisper a month ago. He was a Virgin and just curious about sex so we slept together a few times. We only really started dating on the 15th of January. We are still getting to know each other at the moment. We're just scared that if we tell anyone his best friend might be upset that he would have been one of the last people to know. His best friend has previously liked me. There's also the thing that if we tell our friends it might not work out because I feel we're not ready to tell anyone. But because we live so close someone is bound to see us when we go out and they'll find out anyway and then there will be even more questions asked. How long is too long to keep our relationship a secret, not even his parents know that we're together. Sincerely Anonymous reader
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09-10-2016
01:09 PM
I've been pretty good, I feel as though I might tell him in a month or 2 at least when I finish school cuz it might be awkward if I'm still at school and we basically won't be able to hang out much
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26-09-2016
10:10 PM
1 Kudo
Thanks @cordial99
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26-09-2016
05:25 PM
@NickiPower and @Ben-RO I've already visited all these websites but there is still no answer to my question! So is there some loophole where it makes it legal and not legal at the same time???
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26-09-2016
06:28 AM
Is it Ok for a 22 year old to have sex with a 17 year old? I'm from Queensland, Australia! I've been talking to a guy online and I met him, is it ok for me to have sex with him?
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15-09-2016
10:52 AM
He doesn't have a supervisory role over me, I'm from Queensland. But are their laws about him taking my virginity because he's over 18? My parents have never met him and I have sex with him quite often.
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15-09-2016
12:14 AM
I met up with a guy I'd been talking to for a while. I ended up sleeping with him, I'm 17. I've been seeing him for a few months. Is it legal for me to meet him for sex?
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06-08-2016
01:18 PM
1 Kudo
They don't know yet I told them I'm going with my bf from school.
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06-08-2016
10:49 AM
My parents just found out he didn't go to my school anyway so I think it's sorted. Well kind of because my parents were scared that I met a stranger and started dating him. They want to try and stop me from seeing him now.
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05-08-2016
06:19 AM
I've met this guy online and we've gone on a few dates. My parents aren't too keen on me meeting a stranger. He is the same age as me (17) born on the same day and we are actually quite compatable. How do I tell my parents that I'm dating a guy I met online? Do I just say he goes to my school? Or do I just pretend a friend introduced us? I want to see a live show with him and my brother is going to see him then. How do I tell them how we met, I don't want to say we met online because my parents will scream down my throat. I'm really scared. Do I tell them a lie first and then a bit more down the track tell my parents how we really met?
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