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roseisnotaplant
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04-07-2020
07:06 PM
potato. (it was a potato chip. it's been that kind of day xD) name the first song that comes up on shuffle
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04-07-2020
07:04 PM
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vulture, viper, velocoraptor (dinosaurs totally count)
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04-07-2020
06:50 PM
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Hey everyone :) I have a question - how do I know if something I've experienced is trauma? Are there pre-requisites (like it has to be a sudden event, it has to cause physical or psychological harm etc) or is it something that I just define for myself. I've been having really vivid dreams involving people who caused me a lot of stress and anxiety when I was really sick about three years ago, and I know that dreams like this can be caused by traumatic events. I would quite like to NOT have these dreams, as they make me feel extremely uncomfortable. I'm not really sure how to go about stopping them though. (It's not every night, maybe once or twice a week). To some degree I feel like I'm being a bit dramatic and that I'm obviously not traumatised and it's normal to have recurring unpleasant dreams and I'm fine. I'm open to the possibility that I have to work through some stuff and unpack my subconscious in order to solve this problem. Not sure. Hope you're all well, thanks for reading <3
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30-04-2020
01:10 PM
2 Kudos
Me & My Dog, boygenius Lost Weekend, Lloyd Cole
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22-01-2020
08:23 PM
1 Kudo
It was really tricky at first @keezeik. I found it best to stick to back roads in the country (I'm in a pretty rural area) or empty car parks when I was still learning the basics, that way I was much less likely to crash, or be around lot's of other traffic (which can be pretty stressful). Is there a quiet area you would be comfortable practising in? btw I think it's really dope that you're learning to drive despite your eye, that shows a lot of perseverance. well done :)
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21-01-2020
05:22 PM
3 Kudos
Heya @keezeik! Just got my Ps last Wednesday so if you have any specific questions about the test or the process or whatever I'm happy to try my best to answer them. From my experience the best thing to do is practice a lot with a supervisor who you trust (and preferably one who is calm and experienced). The more you drive the more second nature it becomes, and it's very comforting to have someone in the car with you who will be patient when you make mistakes (happens to us all) and able to answer questions you have. There are quite a few driving instructors who specialise in teaching anxious drivers, have you seen/thought about using an instructor like this? Instructors can be expensive though, so is there also someone else in your life who is able to take you out on drives and help you to learn and feel comfortable? Good luck my friend :)
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20-01-2020
08:03 PM
6 Kudos
Have you ever felt like you have to date or be in a relationship? How have you managed the pressure to be in a relationship? Less pressure more FOMO. I don't really feel obligated to be in a relationship or like it is a societal requirement, but I do see my friends in relationships and want that kind of trust and commitment in my own life. I think there can be a lot of pressure though, especially in places like school.
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20-01-2020
07:33 PM
3 Kudos
hey everyone :)
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01-01-2020
04:43 PM
1 Kudo
a lovely water bottle my friend gave me for christmas yellow
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01-01-2020
04:31 PM
5 Kudos
Hey @Bananatime04, it's so wonderful to hear how special this community is to you, I know it's very special to me as well :) Good luck with the new year my friend, I cannot wait to get to know you better on the forums!
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09-12-2019
01:38 PM
1 Kudo
@Bananatime04 It's really good to hear that you're finding reachout to be a really positive support in your life, and I can understand that the prospect of losing that could be scary. It sounds like you're aware of the guidelines and how to conduct yourself though. If you're ever unsure about whether a post is okay or not, you can always email reachout before posting, or ask a staff member or mod for clarification. Do you think it might help spend a bit of time having a go at some of the games threads? I know that helps me when I want to feel the support of reachout, but I'm nervous or not in the mood to write a serious post. I'm sorry that you're struggling with this my friend, but I'm very glad to hear that RO gives you hope and purpose, I think a lot of us can relate to that :)
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09-12-2019
12:55 PM
1 Kudo
I'm sorry @Bananatime04 I wasn't aware of your situation and I said some insensitive things, I apologise. When RO does ban users it is for their own safety and the safety of other forum users - what I have seen from you recently has exhibited that you are very competent at making sure you and other forum users are safe. In fact you regularly clarify that you are safe in your posts, which I think is really great and shows that you have a good awareness of your own situation :) I think you have really learned from your bans and are a very thoughtful and considerate user - do you think you could think about bans perhaps as a learning experience or safety measure, instead of a punishment or something to be afraid of?
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09-12-2019
12:28 PM
Hey @Bananatime04 :) It's okay to take a break. Can I ask what has made you feel bad? I'm sorry if I said anything to make you upset.
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09-12-2019
11:24 AM
4 Kudos
Today I'm grateful for my wonderful doggo who brings everyone in my family joy when we're feeling down :)
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09-12-2019
11:23 AM
1 Kudo
Hey @Bananatime04, glad to hear you slept well, I LOVE a good sleep in. Sorry to hear about your panic attack :( That's not fun. But dude, none of the posts that I personally have seen of yours have come close to breaking any of the guidelines. If you do break one, the worst we'll do is edit your post and give you a gentle reminder, you won't be in trouble. Try not to stress about it (I know that's easier said than done). Been reading through this thread and wanted to also let you know that questioning your sexuality is SUPER FINE AND NORMAL. I know there's still a lot of stigma and taboo, and that kids at school can be really insensitive and use pretty nasty language at times - I'm hella gay and just finished school, and I did struggle with those things too. If you have any questions about it, feel free to ask :) Hope you have a good day today my friend, how are you doing?
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