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BunnyWalks
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22-02-2019
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20-02-2019
01:32 PM
Sports is a great way to make some friends and have a friendship group. It's gives me a sense of purpose, belonging and commitment. It's important to celebrate, bond and have fun. As well as appreciate and lookout for each other. But I think I watch way too many movies in that I have expectations that a climax (an overwhelmingly exiciting event ) will happen along the timeline of a relationship. Usually IRL it's a celebration or a trip.haha. I don't know why I think this. I reckon it's just the way films are structured in the adventure genre.( In case and point Lord the rings) Problem > relationship forms > rising action > climax > resolution. When I'm at the beach or pool just relaxing. I tell myself it's ok to just be and not think about the future and not value some external form of recognition for the moment. When I'm with friends or peers physically I have this overstimulating feeling of excitement. I feel like have to put a lot of energy Into it. Sometimes obliged to entertain. I do act playful. In the semester we are studying or participating in something ( either studying or participating in sport.) But after that sociallising has another form of energy. It's a sudden switch. Can someone explain to me what experience am I going through when I make that switch ?
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20-02-2019
01:31 AM
1 Kudo
@DirtWitch this is such a thoughtful post . Thank you. I hope these resources we'll will help me make sounds decisions.
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20-02-2019
01:27 AM
Hi @saltwaterdreamtime, Would you happen to know where would an appropriate place to discuss travel plans ? Reach out is great but I may not find what I'm looking for all the time ?
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19-02-2019
09:59 PM
I reckon I could it's basically bar hoping with a group and nightlife tour.
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19-02-2019
09:05 PM
Hi reachout , I'm keen to plan a solo trip to travel on my own. im looking to do some sight seeing and visit Phuket. How can one make friends when there on holiday ? I thought of joining a pubcrawl but are other ways to make friends while on the road ? I've just felt isolated lately after leaving Australia. Please advise me. bunnywalks
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18-02-2019
02:12 AM
1 Kudo
Tacky. Its a nah from me. Serious relationships aren't my thing atm.
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16-02-2019
11:52 PM
1 Kudo
hi @scared thank your input yeah consent is an important part of relationship and I wouldnt want to be a ruining someones time. it comes and goes actually.
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15-02-2019
08:26 PM
2 Kudos
Going out to events and mingling definitely helped me feel like I was apart of a city or celebration I went to the st Kilda festival last year and it felt cool to wander and admire st Kilda from things like acland street and the beach. Also it suited my budget as no way mum and dad would pass me 200 Aud for ticks. I only wished to be brave enough to say hello to strangers. I invite RO gang to share some of memorable events they have attended in Australia or Abroad and how did you socialize ?
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08-02-2019
05:29 PM
Hi Reachout , I've been wanting to have sex on frequent basis. Sex is both physical and emotionally pleasing for me. How can I make this lifestyle change a responsible one for my partner / partners and I ? Who should I consult on this lifestyle change I'd like to make it a positive practice ? Bunny walks.
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06-02-2019
02:43 AM
Clearer thoughts are one of them. Just more time for myself mentally also not comparing myself to my peers who are more well off to me . Usually looking hot at the beach, or a party or even being in an exotic location. Things of which I can't afford due to my circumstances. It doesn't mean Im not worth anything by not being able to afford these things.
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05-02-2019
08:12 PM
@lennycat2017 I appreciate your comment 🥰 Currently ive cut out Twitter and FB. I have on me whatsapp and telegram. Right now I choose to occupy my time with actual activities even if they cost me cash.
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01-02-2019
06:53 PM
5 Kudos
Hey Reachout , I need to express this for my own self awareness and evaluation. I have failed to accomplish a sizable goal and lacked orientation along the way. Along the way, I did grow in ways I cant due to reasons I can't control and I did fall and got hurt. I did my best to solve what I could. I can't control everything and get every desired outcome. I can figure things out mindfully during this down time. I'm moving on slowly right now to new horizons. Right now I tell myself , bunnywalks,. You can make the changes you need to. It's okay. You can't bend the world. Moving on to different aspirations are okay. Move on with you. You can be brave enough and have the courage to put in your best efforts. You deserve help along the way to guide you in the right direction. You allowed to encourage yourself to be in a better position. Be there for you. *Hugs*
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31-01-2019
10:57 AM
Sure @Libellule. I have considered seeing a therapist for this to get into a mindful lifestyle. Excercising and time away from the screen would be a good way to start this. I can't take all this information thrown at me all the time. My mind will get Rocky when it needs to be in cruise control.
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30-01-2019
10:20 PM
4 Kudos
Hi RO fam, I got rid of FB and did some yoga. My mind's just feeling alert now. Now I also want to get rid of my youtube account. ( Jesus the ads are relentless) I have been doing a lot of walking. I would like to know from a practicing qualified expert on what ways can I take care of myself this year be mindful and focused ? Being away from support and in aus@@@ Australia taught me you can't take the world on your own. Help can help you and asserting your identity is not an instant process. It's okay to hurt and be vulnerable around trusted people. Honestly communication to help you and your receiver benefits both of you. Bunnywalks.
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28-01-2019
07:58 PM
@basketofmonkeys I reckon I should speak to an expert about my goals and what I want from my relationship with my parents. Appreciate you sharing.
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27-01-2019
07:18 PM
@Taylor-RO that's a helpful response. I'll get around that.
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26-01-2019
09:13 PM
1 Kudo
@Jay-RO I appreciate you reading this post :)
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26-01-2019
09:02 PM
@basketofmonkeys That first paragraph is correct. Yeah I the values are important but wouldn't the value matter more than the trivial parts of the culture. In some regards I just don't take the regressive aspects of the culture. My parents are public servants and they really go with the uniform of their department. They spend time argueing over abstract concepts or preferences for their Preferred political Candidate or lifestyles. That culture of narrow mindedness isn't going to take me very far. Its not as so much the culture but the conflict within that culture they both have. I feel hurt and emotionally spent from their problems. There not on talking terms to each other and not keen to open up with each other too. I just felt so tired and fatigue from entertaining their questions. @basketofmonkeys I think it's could be because I found the " Australia culture " like the cool big brother I want to be like. He's ask for things but is patient to the things he wants. I find their way of living to be not very cooperative , pragmatic nor keen on building relationships with anyone outside. When I'm with my parents I feel demeaned , patronized , demoralized, controlled , low self worth, guilted and just cut down in every way and nothing i do is an accomplishment or means anything. I think I was hurt by them in a spiritual way. @@@@ Am I experiencing tall poppy syndrome ? How would I explain this to a professional ? They both support me financially but there terribly unnuturing as someone that's supposed to express affection. I just feel exhaustion when I speak to them.
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26-01-2019
01:41 PM
5 Kudos
Hi Reach Out, I'm feeling positive today. I have been cutting my own hair lately and say I'm very happy that I do. It's leaves a bit of a mess but I don't have to leave the house and I save like 40 bucks if I go out and get it done at the barber or have to get mum to drive me there which will take an hour and don't feel too hot when suns out. I found a combo I like . It takes 15 minutes to cut. Clippers are the best.
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25-01-2019
03:35 PM
I'm 7- 7' 6 are some much fun on 1 to 3 ft from waves. If a friend pushes me on an unbroken wave, I just shred it. Others wise I'm not a strong paddler ,TBH.
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25-01-2019
01:33 PM
Haha. I'm a white wash rider myself. What are you looking to shape 😀 ?
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23-01-2019
11:19 PM
I was brought up to think the ultimate goal in life was an act of Patriotism. This intensified with peers and other authority figures telling me via the media. But being away from nationallistic curriculum ,what should I personally pursue ? I'm just keen to think for myself lately and have some control over my life.
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23-01-2019
11:15 PM
Hi Reachout , I realized my parents aren't supportive of me being Australian or being around fun in general. I reckon they push their worries towards me whether it be news political matters , their poor relationship skills or their worries ( internal family things they rather not share ). E.G my dad reads his politics frequently and mum does the same. I feel like emotionally I'm working for them and I don't feel appreciated for being there for them. This led to burnout physical and mentally too. Socially in Australia, I don't find my parents helpful nor acknowledged my accomplishments. I'm feeling my parents are supportive financially speaking but it feels like this relationship is one way. My sister and my mum and dad do at times make me feel inadequate. Also while I was gone in Australia, my mum had caused my sister's to be emotionally depressed via an emotional rampage and my dad wasn't adequate to calm this matter down. Right now the house has a passive aggressive feel to it. E.g. reminding me how expensive living cost is in Australia. Or doubting whether I'm likable to an Australian palette. Also my environment I was brought up in a competitive Asian one I was led to believe these material things like a house and getting the best academic recognition we're the most important things. In Australia I learnt that smiling , bonding with your mates,celebrating life and also cuddling were just important as well. ( Australians are terribly playful people ) I here to ask how can I make my life more about me instead about the people that surround me ? Some small suggestions would much appreciated 😊
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23-01-2019
04:38 PM
@Jess1-RO@letitgo How ? Well my country is in a economically critical condition and is somewhat restrictive of life style choices. Loads of angry comments on things which are petty in life's grand plan. We're know to arrest people based of tweets being critical condition or being Muslim in a night club at the wrong time. Other than that I'm aware there are abusive people in the country I'm from and are not accepting or tolerating of those of European and/or Jewish background. I'm not in the best position to influence people's thoughts atm. I'm just being careful of what sort of attention I might attract on socials. Having some australian friends it may drag them into undesirable situations. it's best we avoid the conflicts which are unnecessary. I would like to enjoy their company in a candid manner. Also mum is on FB so fun times are best kept private. Didn't tell anyone about this. Advice ? Well if your from a developing country like me and you know there could be negative reactions from your peers opt for snapchat or keep your details ( location , pictures private etc ). For your actions like drinking and just getting loose keep in mind people may get jealous and gas lighting may occur. Fortunately Australia is an accepting place but in the places unlike Malaysia or South Africa, Take reasonable care and don't get into an argument. Ignore and move on . Do not engage. You deserve to feel safe and not be subjected to intolerable and unreasonable behaviour. No matter what changes youve made lifestyle wise. And I found social media not the best way to have quality time to bond and enjoy life. "Joyfullness is meant to be in moment rather than in a digital image."- bunnywalks. I hope that answers your question.
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