Aw thanks @Erin-RO your not interupting btw ❤ ... View more

Im glad that made sense @DruidChild its something i too need to work on with a therapist when im able to. I can be super tricky to navigate cant it.. I think i understand what you mean by your families love is painful. Thats another really tough thing to cope with. Hugs ❤ ... View more

@DruidChild I thnk some of those needing to be validated and emotional attachment type of feelings may be similar to mine in the way tha because it is something that ive consistently lacked even though its a basic human need when we get that sort of attention we dont really know what to do with it. Some people shut down while others 'blurt' things out... does that make sense? Maybe this is something worth exploring with your psych as well if your comfortable in doing so? ... View more

Hey @DruidChild Youve no reason to apologise for not being here. You need to take care of yourself first, how can you share a cup of tea if theres nothing left in the teapot... . I can imagine you would be feeling abit emotional after the talk with the other person and the reaction after that. I guess itll need some time to blow over however it also isnt your fault. We never know anyones limits and sometimes when people ask if your ok they arent always prepared for other responses to 'im ok thanks' Wanting to be loved and taken care of is a normal thing for anyone. In ny opinion it isa basic need as well. Im glad your safe though, that is really important to me and to many others here too. I hope tomorrows dbt session goes ok and isnt to overwhelming for you. ... View more

thanks for your kind words @Jay-RO things are just really hard atm. and tomorrows appointment is bringing quite alot of stress so i know thats not helping either. i havent even studied in the health sector- alot is mostly just self taught through my caring roles. Most places dont allow you to do like work experience in the sections i want to work with unless ive studied or its part of the course itself and is a requirment. ' ... View more

sorry @Jay-RO i dont want you wasting your time on me. its not worth it ... View more

studies if im lucky are the only things i dont fail at. @Jay-RO i dont even know if i could work in the health sector, if i cant handle what is happening now then how am i suppose to work in that environment? by the time i get my act together or everyone else is sorted out, my life is going to be over or itll be to late to do anything. ... View more

seems im good at failing life. ... View more

thanks @Jay-RO i dont really know anymore. nothing feels worth it anymore. i dont know what im doing. ... View more

sounds good @ErinsAntics will do! ... View more

that sounds really great @ErinsAntics my sisters might like to do that through the holidays, it sounds really simple ... View more

it is never enough for some people is it. So much guilt already and others just arent making it any better. Im having serious thoughts about up and leaving where i am. ive really had enough of it all ... View more

hmm i tend to just pick depending on my mood @ErinsAntics i use to love the mint choc chip but i cant have it anymore, so sometimes ill get the rainbow one, cookies and cream or just chocolate. they are usually bringing out new flavours so its pretty good to go and jsut havhe a look ... View more

they also have a lolly shop so makes it even better :P @ErinsAntics ... View more

oh that sounds yum @ErinsAntics we have a gelato place about half an hr away but the areas nice too se we tend to spend the day down there as well as getting ice cream as a treat. ... View more

hey @Mrstweety5482 Im glad to hear your safe and that youll be going to spend some time with other family members.I hope it helps even just a bit. Well done for doing what is best for you with your relationship and trying to move forward with your life. ... View more

im glad your doing a little better @redhead nausea can be so awful cant it i hope youll be able to sleep more tonight and wake a little better as well ... View more

hey @Zeldasmile hows things going? ... View more

hey @DruidChild how are you going? ... View more

hey @FootyFan26 how are you going today? ... View more

hey @Mrstweety5482 thinking of you also. please dont be afriad to reach out for those supports ... View more

i was @ecla34 so far after spending some time back on TAFE, ive had a look into a few short courses that im interested in or doing a Bachelor in Health. i want to work in the health sector just not sure in which department as yet, more so somewhere in the nursing field. ... View more

hey @redhead how are you holding up tonight? ... View more

hey @chocolatefeather1 How are things going today? ... View more

hey @Dleehy2002 so glad to hear it was amazing :D ... View more