originally posted on 26-03-2015 10:12 PM

One of the biggest things guys seem to say is that "it feels different" having sex with a condom on, but i find that if you use them regularly, it becomes second nature and you don't even notice the difference!

originally posted on 26-03-2015 10:15 PM

@rose1234 it feels different but i'd rather that than accidently becoming a father. 

originally posted on 26-03-2015 10:10 PM

Most people know there are some laws around sharing nude or semi-nude photos of yourself and other people via messages and social media apps, however there still seems to be some confusion around what is and isn't 'OK'. When is it OK to send pics? And what might be the consequences for you and other people if you send explicit photos of yourself or someone else?

originally posted on 26-03-2015 10:17 PM

From our article "Safe Sexting" - Sexting can be a fun way to flirt but be wary that once an image is out of your hands it can go anywhere. Doug has some ideas about how to stay safe when sexting.

Check out more: http://au.reachout.com/safe-sexting

originally posted on 26-03-2015 10:15 PM

We have some info about this on RO - ssexting is generally ok if it's between two consenting adults, but if you're not 18 and you're sending sexy texts (or if you're receiving sexy texts from someone under 18), you could get in a lot of trouble with the law (even if its between to young people of same age unfortunately).

Any naked or sexual images of people under 18 are considered child pornography underthe current laws, and there are some really serious legal consequences for people who distribute or possess child porn. Check out Lawstuff for more info on what can happen in your state, before you snap or send anything. 

originally posted on 26-03-2015 10:15 PM

I don't think anyone can answer about if it's ok or not because it depends on the person, consequences on the other hand can be bad, like if the person shows their friends or sends it to anyone, you wouldn't know thats the things

I have a friend that sends photos of her boobs constantly and i've warned her but she doesn't listen and consequences are on her really

originally posted on 26-03-2015 10:12 PM

I might answer my own question a bit, but I think one really important thing about sending nudes etc is that if you are under the age of 18 (the age may be different outside WA) that it is classified as child pornography, it is illegal.

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:59 PM

That's okay @j95. Theres some good info about sex and relationship stuff here : http://au.reachout.com/wellbeing/sex-and-relationships

originally posted on 26-03-2015 10:03 PM

What are some of the ways YEP crew talking about bringing up contraception in relationships?

originally posted on 26-03-2015 10:02 PM

communication is definitely key though. I think it doesn't always have to be a very serious sit down conversation, you can discuss it in a light hearted way which still gets across what you want and any concerns to do with contraception

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:55 PM

You're right Sophie, it is the kind of question you should have more than once. Everyone in the situation should be on the same page 🙂

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:53 PM

I agree dreamer95
What is private should stay that way.

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:51 PM

Thats a great question isn't it rose1234 ?
I know I would never share anything too personal online, and if I were to one day, it would have to be with someone I really trust, so someone I had known a long time, and who had promised to never break my trust on something like images.

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:45 PM

I agree CeeGee which is why I tend not to share almost anything online, because if someone where to get mad at me even, they could potentially have something to hurt me.

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:29 PM

Hey @CeeGee - thanks for joining us! Definitely agree about anonymity being a great thing about being online - for finding info, asking questions etc

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:27 PM

Welcome CeeGee 🙂

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:28 PM

I will throw another question in there..

 

How do you know what is a safe relationship online? What steps can you take in order to keep yourself safe when interacting with other people online? What things could you do to ensure you feel respected and that your personal information/images were being protected?

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:32 PM

I think there are always risks, if you don't have a healthy relationship with that person offline but making sure you don't put up photos that could be held against you or give information like your mobile number are great steps

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:35 PM

totally agree rose1234 that online talking online is just another avenue of communication so if a relationship is unhealthy of course it will be online too. but its not the technology that causes problematic behaviour, but for those who are not respectful it gives them another avenue to be disrespectful... does that make sense?

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:38 PM

Thanks Sophie, what about in situations where a relationship is great online but say they are really shy in person to each other. I know this happened a lot when i was a bit younger

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:43 PM

rose1234
I think it would be like getting to know that person in person, like you may be super comfy but become shy when meeting, i think then you would just talk normally and get to know the person and what their personality is like compared to online

Because I've had that happen to me, one minute they were great online then met in person and bam just changed but i can't say everyone will have the same thing but who knows

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:44 PM

do you think its people often take on other persona's online?

originally posted on 26-03-2015 9:48 PM

Catfish is a great show - but its good to remember that it is still constructed somewhat - this was an interesting read http://www.vulture.com/2014/05/catfish-mtv-casting-production-process.html