Relationship with girlfriend?
I and my girlfriend had a 4yr relationship i had to break it off for my mental health and wanted to be a better person and a month and a bit goes by and I have felt like I made the right decision and through how much this relationship is really worth and it was worth a lot to fight for I was ready to ask her but the night before I did she slept with someone else and I was destroyed and through it was way too soon for both of us to do that to each other over a 4 year relationship and I took some time to think and I forgave and we stay out relationship again but this time it was her mentally health and she end it this time she does know who she is during and after the break up so she has to work on her self and I am scared and afraid because I don’t know when she will come back or if she will ever come back to me and I may have too except that she may not and I am having anxiety acts and the stress is really get to me I don’t know what to do
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Hi @Mint_Squirrel it sounds like a lot is going on in your relationship and it's been giving you a lot of anxiety. I think it's totally normal to feel stressed about the amount of uncertainty that has been happening, particularly when you don't feel like you can control what will happen and when. I wanted to ask if I could: are you hoping that she will contact you again? Or are you still wanting space? Is this something you could talk about with someone in your life who understands?
Hi @Mint_Squirrel I'm so sorry to hear that things with your girlfriend have been so hard and stressful recently. I can hear just how hard things are for you right now, so I am just wondering if you have anyone that you feel comfortable talking to about this? I can only imagine how confused and hurt you must feel right now, especially after just getting back together again. I just want to remind you that you're not alone, and we are always here for you 💜
