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So basically i was talking to my friend on Snapchat and we were talking about some random things and then i sent her a sticker but it was kinda private but we were just joking around with it and then i relised i havent really told her my secrets so then i was just about to tell who my crush and then i get a notification from a girl that goes to my school (shes friends with my friend) telling me “hey can i have that sticker” and at first I was really confused because I only sent the sticker to my friend then i realized she was screen recording the chat and i said to my friend “how does____ know i sent this to you?” And she didnt say anything and right now im thanking myself that i didnt tell her my secrets

Unstudiedhumanbeing
UnstudiedhumanbeingPosted 22-03-2024 09:45 PM

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Lapis_Anteater
Lapis_AnteaterPosted 23-03-2024 03:35 PM

Hey @Unstudiedhumanbeing

 

I’m really sorry you were treated like that. It is a big invasion of privacy. I hope she wasn’t recording your chat and sharing it to be mean. It’s still not an appropriate thing to do. It’s frustrating when people don’t apologise/admit to what they did. Has this happened before? Is she the type of person who’d be willing to talk about it later?
 
It sounds like this would make it really hard to share anything private with her in the future. Do you have other friends that you can have confidential conversations with?

 
Lemon_Dolphin
Lemon_DolphinPosted 22-03-2024 09:59 PM

Hey @Unstudiedhumanbeing 

 

Sorry to hear what's happened. It must be so hard to find your friend is sharing your private discussions with other people. And you must feel betrayed and hurt. And those feelings are completely valid.

 

Have you got something nice you can do for yourself after what's happened?

 

Do you think you'll be able to discuss with them what happened and your feelings about this? But if they didn't answer, they might not later either. So I'm not sure.

 

I just want to remind you, this is not your fault. They are the one at fault, not you.

 

Anyway, hope you're going ok.

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