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Hey just a quick question I'm changing my email address because my ex partner is logging In on things changing my Names
Do i tell the people who work the new email or not
Sorry if that doesn't make sense
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Hi @Cup,
I want to start by thanking you for posting and sharing your experience with us 🙂
I want you to be proud of yourself for taking the steps you need towards your own well-being, it's really amazing to see and from what I have read I can see that you care deeply for yourself and your safety.
I'm really glad to see you connecting with us and hearing that your Ex-partner has access to your email address is concerning it's ok to feel overwhelmed and scared at the moment. I can imagine discovering this must of been quite concerning, you should be proud of your resilience and bravery during this time. We want you to know that the whole community is here for you.
We are wondering if you've tried or had success in changing your password to your email address?
If you would like more support with your email account, 1800RESPECT might be a good next step.
We would like to connect with you via email, however, we're mindful that we don't want to use the email address you used when registering for the online community in case your ex has access to this same email address.
I encourage you to email us at forums@reachout.com if you want to share your email address with us.
Again i want you to be proud of taking this step towards your own well-being and we look forward to hearing from you soon.
@Zig_RO  I've changed the password 3 times they still got in
Right now on a different platform I could be banned or get another warning because my ex has already shared my name and last name yes they can see everything who messaged me or done Checks in
I can't really say why they are doing it because it will be very triggering
P s I'm sorry I'm so sorry 😞 it's my fault I didn't listen
Sorry if this didn't make sense 😕
Hi @Cup,
Thank you for the response 🙂
I can imagine that this experience has been really frustrating and tiring for you and it's ok to feel drained or lost right now. I want you to know that it's not your fault and no one ever has the right to access your personal information or accounts.
While your Ex-partner has access to your email address linked to this account I want to encourage you to refrain from using it.
If possible it might be beneficial to create a new account under a new email address so you can post and receive emails from us safely right now.
I'm also wondering if you can consider contacting 1800RESPECT tonight as well as they might be able to offer more support and steps to ensure your safety.
Again i want you to know that none of this is your fault, and it's ok to feel distressed currently. I'm wondering if you have any self-care activities you like to practice that can take your mind off things and make you feel better.
all the best 🙂
@Zig_RO 
So in other words Is I do as they say? Or I cop bans
If I call respect they can help?
I'll check in tomorrow if you like?
