TW!!: Haha, struggling.
Welp, today has been amazing/sar
Got ballsy with our dad and told him that we were sick of the way he treats us and basically got called a spoilled/little bitch and abusive. This man is why we are like how we are. We want to leave but we physically can't.
Also relapsed again so that's fun/sar.
I'm don't with lying, he's physically and verbally abusive, yet he claims that we're abusive.
Mind you, all of this started because he blamed our phone for us feeling sick which is fucking stupid. What's worse was the fact that there were littles both semi fronting and in the headspace crying because they didn't want to go to school. It's become a repetitive thing where whenever we get sick we almost get forced to go to school.
I hate our dumb family, our dad reminds me of my source dad
-Toby
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Hey Teddybois,
Sorry to hear about the tough time you are going through. It's unfortunate that your Dad seems abusive, and to make matters worse, seems to lack self-awareness or the ability to communicate properly.
Are there other sources of support or outlets that you can turn to for help? Is it possible to share this issue with your school counselor? If this issues get serious enough, I believe the school has an obligation to step in and offer you help and advice.
Hope this helps :))
Update:
Getting blamed for the shit relationship. I already feel guilty enough, we don't need people lingering over our shoulder and we don't need a source of comfort taken away.
Reawakened anger
-Toby
Hey @Teddybois that sounds so very rough. I think it's very understandable that this has brought up a lot of anger for you. Did you have an opportunity to talk to your school, or to anyone else about this situation?
Hey @Teddybois
Thank you for reaching out and sharing this with us, we are sorry to hear that you have been experiencing this, it sounds like it has been a really difficult time for you all and we are really glad that you have been able to share this with us and have reached out for some support.
It must have taken a lot of courage to stand up for yourself and the system and we can only imagine how hurtful it must have been to hear your dad respond to you the way that he did. I can also hear how upsetting and frustrating it must have been when he blamed your phone for you feeling sick. I’m wondering if you have anyone in your life that you trust and feel comfortable talking to about this and sharing what has been happening?
I can also hear that school has been challenging and was wondering if there was anyone at school that you could talk to, maybe a teacher or a school counsellor so that you feel more comfortable or have some more support at school?
I can hear how much of a difficult time it has been for the system recently and it sounds like there’s been a lot going on, is there anything that has been helpful or anything that makes you feel better?
Again we are really glad that you have shared this with us and want you to know that you aren’t alone and that we are all here to support you all.
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