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Hi guys i really need some help/advice here 

 

lemme tell you the background info first 

 

So last year i met this girl at my new school i started at and we became friends we had some good times , but over time i developed feelings for her , long story short she said no , it was awkward at first but we worked through it , then a few months down the track she started being really weird around me turns out she doesn't really like hanging out constantly with people , we worked through that as well and know things are kinda good i guess , 

 

know the problem i have been having ?!?!?!?!?!

 

I dont know i guess what the problem is that i just feel as if our interactions aren't the same as they used to be , she doesnt laugh at my jokes , she doesnt like it when i touch her in a playful way which we used to all the time , our interactions just seem so cold , im really quite upset cause i think it would be kill me to not be friends anymore , i wanna know how to fix this situation .

Lonelyboy17
Lonelyboy17Posted 31-05-2019 08:49 PM

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Ladybug
LadybugPosted 01-06-2019 03:28 PM

Hi @Lonelyboy17 

I can imagine how hurtful it can be when you feel distanced from a close friend.  Friends are so important, I can't imagine a world without mine. It's great that you want to work through things and are asking for advice.

As you say, there are some people that just get a bit drained if they are around the same people all the time. So perhaps just give her a little bit of space. Not too much that you become more distant, but just enough for her to notice that she misses your presence in her life. So maybe like a day or two.

Or you could consider that perhaps she is experiencing some problems in her own life that are causing her to act a bit different. In that case, just be a supportive friend. Show her that you're there for her if she needs any help.

Let me know how things work out. Good luck!

 
 
Lonelyboy17
Lonelyboy17Posted 02-06-2019 05:55 PM
Hey thanks for the words , i was thinking about taking her somewhere which she enjoys going ,and talking about things do you think that is a good idea
 
 
 
Ladybug
LadybugPosted 03-06-2019 11:17 AM

That sounds like a great idea. Sounds like you know her well if you can guess places she enjoys visiting. And talking is always helpful.

Good luck! I hope it goes well for you both 🙂

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