you can do it
had to deal with the bullies at school but i'm okay and home life is hell but what ever you are going thrue i beleve in you ,you are stronger than you think keep going ❤️
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Hello @axolotl_lovers_1528,
First of all, as with @Zig_RO ,welcome to the community! I'm glad to hear that you have been able to find this community and that you are able to connect with and share you concerns with us here on Reachout.
I'm sorry to hear that you have been having issues with bullying in school and that your circumstances at home are not the greatest as well. As with @Zig_RO , @Matcha_Toad and @QuietFocus211 , I would also like to ask if you have talked about this or reach out to any close teachers, relatives, friends or even professional support like a counsellor on this matter? Apart from these in-person support, alternative online support calls or online chats (such as Lifeline , Beyond Blue and Headspace ) could also be considered and they might be able to provide you with next steps, services or programs that might be relevant to your specific needs (much like a counsellor as well), if gaining access to an in-person counsellor posts a challenge at the start.
Unlike @Matcha_Toad, I personally didn't have to face familial issues at home ( albeilt I did go through bullying but it fizzle out on its own as everyone aged up). However, my partner has gone through family clashes and my partner found it particularly helpful to seek help from a counsellor on it and talking about it had really helped my partner deal with the situation at hand. So a counsellor might be someone you can further consider. Personally, apart from counselling, like @Matcha_Toad , my partner made a private place in her room as well, where my partner could pursue passions as well as hobbies and that really takes the edge off from the family. My partner also goes out to explore her surroundings as a means of getting away and distancing herself from the household when needed as a means of self-care.
Finally, as with @Zig_RO and @Matcha_Toad , I would like to also acknowledge how brave and strong you are for confronting your situations and being optimistic it about despite its difficulties. That's something that is very admirable and many people that see this would surely be able to appreciate it 😊.
If any case, I hope this was helpful and as with @QuietFocus211 , you don't need to face this issue alone and we are here to support you if you need it ❤️
Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. I’m so sorry to hear about what you’re dealing with at school and at home—it sounds really tough. Do you have someone you can talk to about everything, like a friend, teacher, or counselor?
Your safety and well-being are so important, and you don’t have to face this alone. I believe in your strength, but please reach out if you need support.
You matter, and I’m here for you. ❤️
Hey @axolotl_lovers_1528
I am so sorry to hear that you have had to put up with bullies at school. Experiencing bullying is awful. Have you spoken to someone you trust about the bullying you have been experiencing, like a favourite teacher, friend, counsellor or family member? I also recommend to show yourself some extra care and compassion by doing some self care activities, could you think of things you could do that may help you feel better?
I'm also incredibly sorry to hear that your home life has been like hell for you, this must be incredibly difficult, especially when you already experience bullying at school. I've been in a similar situation, and I did find it helpful to talk to a counsellor about it, so perhaps you may find speaking to one useful. I also found it helpful to turn my room into a safe space where I could escape to/decompress in, by adding comforting things like throw blankets, candles, a snack stash etc.
I really admire the compassion you have for others by reminding us that we are stronger than we think, and tokerp pushing through life. I'm certain that many of us needed to hear this message, so thank you very much 💚
I hope you are feeling a bit better today, I'll be around to chat today 💚
- Matcha_Toad 🐸🍵💚
Hi @axolotl_lovers_1528,
I want to thank you for your post and welcome you to the online community!!!! It's really amazing to see you find this safe space to share and connect and i want you to know that the community is here to support you 🙂
I want you to commend you on your courage and bravery in sharing what has been happening for you, it can be a very challenging thing to do, especially on an online space. you should be so proud of yourself.
I want to thank you for sharing such powerful and supportive word and from what i have read i can see that you are proud of the steps you've taken when it comes to overcoming challenges, it's incredible to see.
Bullying can be a very challenging and draining thing that no one should ever have to experience and I'm wondering if you feel comfortable sharing more about overcoming your experiences and what helped you through this period?
I'm wondering what supports you might have, whether it's other family members or friends, or perhaps professional such as a counsellor?
Again thank again for sharing apart of your journey and the supportive words 🙂
