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Gaming Chair vs Social Meetups

So my parents told me that instead of presents they'll just give me money, and tbh I don't have a problem with that.

 

With this mind, I'm questioning how I should spend this extra money (not too sure how much). I've been wanting a new chair for pretty much a year now, however, I'm considering if I should spend that extra money hanging out with my friends going bowling or ice-skating.

 

Looking ahead to January, I'm not too sure.

yeah_it_tahtperson
yeah_it_tahtpersonPosted 24-12-2022 11:38 AM

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yeah_it_tahtperson
yeah_it_tahtpersonPosted 10-01-2023 11:39 AM

as an update for some reason my parents were willing to pay for my new chair, so that resolved itself 😛

 
Walter-RO
Walter-ROPosted 24-12-2022 01:24 PM

Hey @yeah_it_tahtperson 

 

Sounds a bit like a classic dilemma of tangible gifts versus experiences.

Im guessing you love gaming and having already waited for a whole year must be frustrating.

But also doing things and having experiences with friends is really nice too isnt it.

 

Wondering if it might be helpful to weigh up for yourself what is more important: a chair that provides comfort (and maybe ergonomics im not sure), or hanging out with friends doing things you all love.  

 

Or maybe also having a chat with your folks and your friends around this a bit more - have you been able to ask them what they think? 

 

 

 

 
 
yeah_it_tahtperson
yeah_it_tahtpersonPosted 24-12-2022 11:10 PM

Hey @Walter-RO ,

 

yep its that basic dilemma,

 

I'm not too sure how helpful weighing up the two options would be, though I reckon having a chat with my folks about this would help. I wonder what they think.

 
 
 
Dem--RO
Dem--ROPosted 25-12-2022 02:11 PM

Hey @yeah_it_tahtperson,

 

I'm just wondering if your folks need help with any odd-jobs over the summer, and if so, would it be possible for you to earn some cash by covering some things for them. This might be a way to get the gaming chair and still be able to meetup with your friends.

 

Another option could be looking to see if there is anything free happening in your local area, so you and your friends don't have to worry about spending too much money. 

 
 
 
 
yeah_it_tahtperson
yeah_it_tahtpersonPosted 26-12-2022 11:08 AM

Hi @Dem--RO ,

 

that's a good idea, the main issue is we don't live particularly close to each other, though we might consider the free events nearby. just not sure if they're interested.

 
 
 
 
 
Dem--RO
Dem--ROPosted 28-12-2022 12:17 PM

Hey @yeah_it_tahtperson,

 

I just wanted to check in and see how you went over Christmas ðŸ™‚ Have you made any plans to catch up with your friends? 

 
 
 
 
 
yeah_it_tahtperson
yeah_it_tahtpersonPosted 28-12-2022 12:21 PM

hey @Dem--RO ,

 

Christmas went well, caught up with family friends :).

 

I have made plans to catch with friends after New Years, about the gaming chair I might ask my parents if they'll buy one for me.

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