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Hi Bento

I thought I would jump on and share some of experiecnes. My story goes a bit like this. When I was a kid i knew very early on that I didnt feel connected to be being a a girl but i also didn't feel connected to being a boy. So for me I ended up asking my family at times to call me jake and other times call me claire. When I was growing up I had alsmot no exposure to queer people in real  life or on TV. I definitely had never heard of non-binary, i dont think it was really being used. As I got older I started to identify as Bisexual, however I thought that I was really only attracted to women so I then identifed as a lesbian. Time went on and I contiuned to explore both my sexulaity and gender, thats the thing it isnt finite it is evolving so allow yourself to grow as you need to.  I have noe landed on indetifying as Bisexual/queer thats because I also Identify as non-binary now, but also because through research, and relationships with Bi+ people I have allowed myself to accept that whilst I would not want to have a relationship with a man I am still attarctced to them. You see behaviour doesnt define indentity, if you find yourself attarcted to multiple genders that you use what label works for you. I use Bi+ plus as it incorporates being bisexual, pansexual, omnisexualaand sexually fluid. Basically you label yourelf however you want and remeber those labels can change whenever you want them too. Hope this has helped 🤗