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@Anonymous I love k-pop too! I can never tell if I want to be with the idols or I want to be them, lol. I relate to feeling ill when I think about relationships; that was another part of why I started identifying with the ace and aro labels. I would say having the labels was important to my sense of self at the very beginning. they gave me permission to be different and to accept myself, and they were a gateway into the Queer community. being part of the community, I have learned so much and I've been able to develop my own unique view of things, to the point that having a particular label isn't important to me anymore. nowadays I don't share my labels with people very often, other than Queer, because I don't want anyone thinking that they can understand me just based on a couple of words 😛