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Hey @Forest_lover111 

Your feelings are very valid here. You have done your part for the family in a way that you are able to, you had cleaned the dishes, bathroom area etc. 

While I think the problem of your family labelling you as selfish could be from that they are working most of the time and wouldn't have a clue on whose doing what chore work around the house. Maybe trying to communicate to them on what chores specifically you are doing as part of this family? 

But remember, although you can communicate with them of the situation. It does not mean that they might want to hear it, which could lead to guilt tripping and continuing on interalising the idea of you being "selfish".

So remember, you have done your chores/parts around the house to the best of your ability. Don't let this situation belittle yourself!