Hi @uncaged,
Thank you so much for reaching out! It takes great strength to acknowledge that we may at times feel heavy. I noticed you said that this was not a big deal, however, this situation seems to be bothering you.
It is difficult when things change, especially when a person changes. However, it is very important for you to acknowledge how you are feeling in response to this change in behaviour. It is common to look for evidence that the person we initially met is still present. Then we tend to ignore all the evidence that they have changed and are no longer making us feel good. I want to ask you how it felt to have this person snap at you when you reached out?
Facing reality and acknowledging that some things change is a big challenge. This means accepting this person as they currently are and how they are currently behaving. As for removing this person off of social media, there is no immaturity nor hatred involved in this. If this person's presence on your snapchat list makes you feel upset and distressed, I would suggest removing them. Establishing boundaries has nothing to do with hatred and everything to do with self-love. However, you should listen to your gut in this instance, you know yourself best. I would also like to remind you that you are not an option, nor do you deserve to have someone snap and swear at you.
Thank you again for reaching out, looking forward to hearing from you 🤗
