Hi @Asparagus_Hedgehog ,
I just responded to your other post so I apologise for the spam hehe, I just wanted to give some advice on this situation.
First off, dating apps can be a nightmare just in general oml props to you for surviving on there haha. But I understand how it feels when it comes to that sort of insecurity and I used to feel them often, especially in my current relationship. However, I found that communicating that sort of fear to my partner and helping my partner understand my feelings helped out a lot. For example, what I said to my partner about these feelings, was along the lines of "hey, I don't know why I feel like this but I get scared that you're talking to other people." And I emphasise that these feelings are due to any of their actions but are more of an insecurity that I'm working on. I am a huge advocate for communication in relationships but it is definitely way easier said then done and it takes practise. But the end results are worth it. It also helps to asks them to give you lots of reassurance about them caring for you and such.
I hope this advice helps a little bit, a summary of it all is✨ 🙌communicate literally everything🙌✨
