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Hey @Sunset_Crab ,

I completely understand how you feel. When I started dating the person I'm currently with, I couldn't stop thinking of the possibility that this relationship is only temporary and I am putting all my love into someone that I will never have a future with. Not to mention that "uncertainty of the future" you mentioned is literally the fuel for my anxiety haha!

Idk if this helps but something I learnt these past few months as I've been trying to improve on my anxiety is that that "uncertainty" I am afraid of isn't actually always scary and whatever ends up happening I know I'm going to be ok in the end. Like even if the relationship I'm in ends up us parting ways, I don't think I'd ever regret loving them or even meeting them in general because they helped me become the person I am today. Sometimes people who appear in your life are only around for a short time but that's alright! It's sad but I still think the time you spent with them is usually worth it in the end.

Sorry if this was sappy haha but thank you for sharing how you're feeling! It's a hella brave thing to do 😆 And I hope what I said helps at least a tiny bit ❤️