Hey Pinkfluffyunicorn24 🩷
I understand how frustrating and difficult it is to deal with manipulative people. It can be even worse when these people are your parents. From what I have read, I can tell that you have every right to be feeling the way that your are. That certainly IS quite messed up. You should be proud of yourself for recognising that these behaviours are hurting you and seeking change as a result. Regarding your post title, while it is not ‘normal’ family behaviour, you are definitely not alone.
I have had my own struggles with family, and I also hated it when people say "but at the end of the day it's still your family". Just because they are blood related to you does not mean you deserve to be treated so unfairly.
I know you aren't necessarily looking for advice, but checking out some of the articles in the family section may provide some helpful further insight. It includes dealing with conflict, tips for communication, and the idea of a chosen family 🫶🏻
