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Hey @Green_Forest 

This is something I can relate to so much!!

My parents are very traditional greeks and have very strict boundaries as to what they are and are not ok with. It took ages for them to warm up to my current partner.

I definitely agree with the suggestion from @snazzy_pigeon to write what you want to say down and then say it to them or if that is to scary even just giving it to them so you can articulate what you feel and what you want them to understand without stressing about phrasing it in the moment or in my case being scared of crying hahaha.

I don't know if this would work for you but maybe see if they would be ok if he came over and hung out with you at home instead of going out with him? That way they could maybe get to know him a little more as well.

It is so frustrating when your parents don't understand how you feel and why but you are doing great. Venting to others and journalling my feelings as well as excerice were ways I tried to manage the build up of emotions from these types of situations. Make sure to do some self care that works for you too!

I am sending positive vibes ❤️