Hi @Matcha_Toad
Firstly, I just want to say – I empathise with you and 100% understand that post-holiday feeling. It can be such a hard adjustment coming back into routine after experiencing a beautiful 2-week break, especially since you have had a lovely time with your partner. It sounds like this recent trip away has been quite pivotal for you!
My advice would be to slow down and give yourself as much love and patience as possible while you adjust back into your usual routine and navigate this new feeling you’re experiencing in your relationship. This will also help you consider your options after finishing your studies! Id recommends looking into the universities and post-graduate studies that interest you and write some notes, comparisons, considerations and pros and cons! Once you feel clear in what your options are, you can chat with those around you or your partner to discuss what option is viable.
Rest assured – you are not alone in this feeling. I felt this same way after completing my undergraduate degree and felt completely lost in knowing what to do next. It can be overwhelming knowing how many options and opportunities are out there. Maybe write a list of what your values are and what matters to you, and then using your notes about your study/job options, you can see what aligns with you! Something that really helped me was reminding myself that there is no ‘wrong choice’ and it is never too late to change your mind. Whatever you choose, you will gain and learn something fantastic out of it!
Look forward to hearing from you!
