Hi @Elia 🧡
I am so sorry to hear that you've been experiencing some bullying and hurtful comments/rumours from others. It's extremely unfair and and you are completely valid in feeling uncomfortable and reaching out for support. You definitely shouldn't have to "suck it up and get over it".
I have experienced similar things in high school, and year 9 especially was full of hurtful rumours, losing friends, and feeling confused, so I can really empathise with your situation. For me, I found that it was really a case of quality over quantity regarding my friends, and just trying to ignore anyone who was mean or nasty. Are there any students who you are close with that could offer some support at this time?
I also think it may be helpful to speak to your outside counsellor, if you feel comfortable speaking to your parents about this. It may also help to check out the Bullying section here on ReachOut as it includes more specific resources and tips.
It’s great you have an amazing partner to support you. I’m also sending lots of love and am here if you need to speak more 🫶🏻
