Hey there @forest_falcon
First of all I would like to welcome you to our community, it’s so great to see new people joining and sharing their stories and struggles, we are very happy you are here! 🤗 Also do not apologise, this is a safe space to ramble about anything you have in mind and we are all here to listen and support you in any way we can 💜
I am really sorry to hear about your recent break up, I still remember my first ever relationship when I was in high school and when things ended I was sooo hurt, constantly thinking about them, if I should text them or if they will, constantly checking my phone in class to see if they messaged me at all, crying at night 💔 break ups are not easy and they hurt a lot especially when it’s your first… so I am sorry to hear you are going through this but I am glad to see that you are opening up about it and that you have people who are there to support you because that’s the most important thing during this time.
But I will say that you never really know, I believe that if it’s meant to be it will be when it’s time. So maybe after school finishes or down the track when she will have things figured out… you just never know because you are both so young and still trying to explore yourselves and life, I am 20 and I am still learning more and more about myself each day, so try to be hopeful but also take this as an opportunity to really get to know yourself and what you liked during the relationship and what you didn’t like because that can help you to recognise what type of relationship you want for next time whether it is with her again or someone else.
This blog article from ReachOut talks about how to cope through a break and I thought it might help you out so I will attach the link here: https://au.reachout.com/relationships/romantic-relationships/coping-with-a-breakup#
I would also suggest Headspace if you need to speak with a professional 1-1 about what you are currently going through, they are a free mental health service for young people: https://headspace.org.au/online-and-phone-support/connect-with-us
I know this is very clichè but trust me, time will heal you and things will become better than what they might feel like now, just take one day at a time and try to keep busy by doing things you enjoy or by surrounding yourself with your support system that’s what I always do when I feel lonely or a relationship has ended and each day gets better.
I hope this helped you a bit and gave you a bit of hope. Remember we are always here for you so feel free to come back anytime with anything that’s on your mind.
I look forward to hearing your thoughts, take care, be safe and sending you much love 💜😊
