Hi guys, I'm new to this site and I am looking for advice.
Recently, my ex gf cheated on me but I can't help but think I am to blame.
So, both of us are WHM's and this is my second year but it is her first year here. As I am from the UK, I no longer need to do regional work but she did because of her nationality and visa. I was renting a flat and had a job that saved me a good amount of money for our future travel plans. So, we discussed it and decided that we would do long distance but I would visit as often as I could whilst she was away for her regional work. After about 3 weeks away from each other, I decided that I wanted to be with her and move to her location. Once I said this, communication became distant and 1 day before my flight to her was set to depart, she told me she had slept with someone else. Was I wrong to focus on the future instead of living in the moment and going with her? I'm finding it hard to think otherwise.
