Hey @Aggie2098, that’s a tough situation, and I’m really sorry you’re going through it. But honestly, it doesn’t sound like you’re to blame here.
You made a decision together to do long distance so you could set up a future for the two of you. It’s completely reasonable to focus on your job and saving money—those are important things for anyone planning to travel and build a life together.
Cheating is on her, not on you. It’s not about whether you should’ve been living in the moment or not. You were trying to make it work, and that’s commendable. Sometimes people make choices that hurt others, and that’s on them, not you.
It’s normal to question things when something like this happens, but try not to beat yourself up over it. You did your best💕
