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Hey @koobdoob 

I’m glad you have people. Being physically able to go to a funeral and being mentally able to are separate things. It’s okay that they don’t align. It doesn’t make you a bad person. If you think you’ll regret not going, then that’s always something to consider. There are also so many other ways to show that you care about your grandfather and a lot of them are going to be more personal than showing up to his funeral. It’s a really difficult decision to make. Be kind to yourself.