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Hey @Lapis_Anteater 

Yeah of course, I doubt we could completely overcome our perception of appearance and the idea of finding people physically attractive, I was more eluding to the idea that I feel as though lots of people are wired to have the bar for what constitutes physical attraction raised too highly, which as I mentioned is perpetuated by things like pornography, social media etc. 

I feel as though I've been subject to this conditioning tbh, so yeah I'm gonna keep trying to determine what I find as truly attractive in a person that goes beyond looks, and hopefully over time I'll develop a better perception on things.