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It sounds like you're in a tough spot where you're feeling isolated and unsupported. It's important to set boundaries and communicate how you feel. If you're uncomfortable around people using substances, that's valid, and your boyfriend should respect that. It's not about insecurity—it's about feeling included and safe. Maybe try having a calm conversation with him when you're both sober, explaining how his actions affect you, and discussing how you both can find a middle ground that respects each other's needs. But if you don't feel safe to do so, maybe try giving yourself some space. Take all the time you need to make sure you are okay before you see him again.