Hi Hazel
I don't know the specifics of why you're feeling betrayed, but feelings are valid and usually happen for good reason. I heard somewhere that if you feel like you're doing everything for a relationship, make some space and see if they fill the gap. So yes, if that's relevant for you, it's good to make more time and effort for the friends who would do the same for you, and perhaps, to state the obvious, don't invest as much into those that hurt you or don't respect your boundaries ❤️
There's a wide variety of people out there, and even more varieties of relationships you can form with them. I'm sorry that you happened to form relationships with people who took your trust away 😔 Take care of yourself first 💕And if you feel ready, don't be afraid to explore, find someone with common interests. For me, sometimes it doesn't even have to be a close friend - just talking to someone about something we both enjoy makes me happier and helps me relax.
Glad to hear you have friends to talk to! I found that having a few good friends feels better than trying to maintain a lot of relationships which weren't as close. You seem to be a lovely and caring person, like so many people on here! So don't worry, over time, more good friendships will come your way 🙂
