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Scarlet_Bird
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Hi @HazelHazelton

 

I'm so sorry to see this happen to you. It can be difficult losing a friend who you value, especially when you both share an interest in each other. It is completely understandable and valid to be stressed and overwhelmed about this situation. I would absolutely feel the same if I was in your position.

 

I think its important to note that your friend did not do this out of malice but rather out of love. I understand that sometimes that makes things more complicated and harder to move on from, but it seems they also want the best for you. I also think that they have decided to send that message not only for themselves but for you as well. It seems that because they cannot be in a romantic relationship that they don't want to cause you any lasting pain so they are being honest with you. In saying that, ending the friendship can be just as hurtful. I also want to highlight that in the last section of the text, they really just want the best for you. Please try to not blame yourself. I can see that they really care for you and will continue to want the best for you, as you would for them.

 

Wishing you the best 💛

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