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25-05-2019
01:00 PM
1 Kudo
Hello @Bananatime04 and friends :) I have missed you all on the forums heaps and I've set myself a goal of scheduling in some time a few times a week where I'll log on and spend some time on the forums. I've been dealing with my own personal struggles and haven't been in a good place to provide support. I've feeling more in control now though. I've just been reading the last few pages of this thread, but I don't actually know what's going on :S Are you ok?
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16-05-2019
06:06 AM
2 Kudos
hey @Bananatime04 this is a one-off night for me I hope. Hey..I have been meaning to say sorry to you for my reaction to you last week. It was totally unfair, untrue and insensitive of me. I'm sorry :(
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08-05-2019
11:59 PM
3 Kudos
@scared01 yes all stuff BPD I'm right into! (Unfortunately!! Lol)
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08-05-2019
11:49 PM
2 Kudos
Fuck yeah for getting all those things done!! Especially if you feel like staying in bed forever
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08-05-2019
11:10 AM
3 Kudos
Hi @Lonelyboy17 I'm sorry to hear that you're in this situation. I understand how confusing it can be for you emotionally. @mspaceK and @queenP both gave some good advice. From my experience as a heterosexual female ( I am a girl who likes boys ), I have been on the other side of this where my male friend had feelings for me but I didn't. I found that the only way I could just be "friends" with them was to try to be consistent with things like not accepting offers to give me a massage (which I actually wold have loved), paying for myself, not staying overnight etc. It made me feel guilty just being friends with them because I knew that they wanted and would always hope for more. So I had to limit the amount of time I spent with them so that I could be just friends with them without unintentionally leading them on. So I would only see them maybe once every few months. To have a closer friendship with them made me feel like I was taking advantage of them.
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07-05-2019
08:18 PM
1 Kudo
omg @xXLexi_Lou122Xx hahahahahah yes!!!! It's shocking but i love it. (I don't watch it daily or anything :P)
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07-05-2019
07:02 PM
2 Kudos
Today I know for sure I'm an adult now because I MOWED MY OWN LAWNS!!!!!! And even got it going myself ;)
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01-05-2019
10:32 PM
2 Kudos
Oh and then I read the next few posts.... that sucks and I have no advice. Hope you can get some relief tonight
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01-05-2019
10:28 PM
2 Kudos
@Cheeseburger I was reading through this thread and wasn't going to jump in... but you posted this and I just wanted to say how awesome that is! Just feeling HAPPY just because!!!! Go you!!!!
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01-05-2019
10:21 PM
2 Kudos
@SomeoneNADJS I could imagine seriously considering solipsism would be particularly distressing :( How have you been feeling lately?
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01-05-2019
10:13 PM
2 Kudos
Hey @Bananatime04 we all miss ya!! Hope you're doing well xoxoxoxxoo
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01-05-2019
11:01 AM
1 Kudo
I haven't heard of throne of glass. I have also heard outlander is good. Also heard good things about homeland. I also watch the walking dead and fear the walking dead. The last tv show i was as into as game of thrones was breaking bad. Did you watch that? Yes i do like to read :) i mostly read true stories and autobiographies. Get Outlook for Android
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01-05-2019
10:49 AM
I feel like there is never going to be another t.v. show as good as game of thrones ever again :( Get Outlook for Android
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01-05-2019
10:29 AM
1 Kudo
It was so full on. It was bloody emotional! I wanted to cry at the helplessness of it all. How good was Arya!?
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30-04-2019
11:52 PM
1 Kudo
They say that episode alone cost $60 million
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30-04-2019
11:51 PM
2 Kudos
Me too!! It was absolutely chilling. Spoiler alert! When that first group went out with their swords on fire then slowly all the lights went out and went quiet - so brilliant!!!! Then when the leader went to raise all the dead again - ahhh!!!!
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30-04-2019
11:21 PM
1 Kudo
@mspaceK how good was it!??!?!?!?!? Omg!!!!
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30-04-2019
08:53 PM
1 Kudo
I think Whitelion does too. These are in Melbourne but worth checking out if they do it up your way
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30-04-2019
08:51 PM
2 Kudos
Hey @kiramirror <3 I just started youth mentoring through Raise Foundation. It's a program mentoring young kids around year 8 age in school once a week :) I know Melbourne City Mission has a similar program too. Good luck!
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20-04-2019
12:01 AM
2 Kudos
I'm going to bed now. Thanks for the chat guys :) I know this might sounds like a super lame alternative.... slap your thighs really hard?
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19-04-2019
11:58 PM
1 Kudo
@Bananatime04 you are likely to eventually get caught out doing it. Especially in public spaces like at school (random example - in school my cigarette lighter fell out of my pocket onto the floor in front of the teacher lol whoops)
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19-04-2019
11:42 PM
1 Kudo
The first time I did it, I was in my room and I started balling my eyes out when I had decided that this was something I was going to do. I'm trying to think up something helpful to say but I don't know what :( Please remember that you are better than how you are treating yourself. Remember that scars are for life. But know that you are not a failure if you continue to do it.
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19-04-2019
11:31 PM
1 Kudo
I'm glad you are safe now. At some point, the marks will be noticed. But what is REALLY worrying is that you could end up doing more harmful things as the addiction gets worse. How do you feel when you have done it?
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19-04-2019
11:17 PM
1 Kudo
I can understand and relate to feeling that any other alternative behaviour is not as good as the addiction :( Are you safe right now? Do you have family or friends that know about it?
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19-04-2019
11:12 PM
1 Kudo
Have you had a look at this thread about coping strategies for self harm? https://forums.au.reachout.com/t5/Getting-Help/Self-harm-coping-strategies-and-alternatives/m-p/353603#M36028%22 Are there some things listed there you would try? Recognizing that this is becoming an addiction shows that you are insightful. I don't really know what to advise here.
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19-04-2019
11:00 PM
1 Kudo
I don't know how much of that will be meaningful to you cos I'm guessing our circumstances are different. Why do you feel that you cannot stop? Are you harming yourself worse?
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19-04-2019
10:58 PM
1 Kudo
Yes that's right. I don't do it anymore. I had started in the months before my pregnancy and I stopped while I was pregnant. The major thing that really got me to stop was that a child protection report had been made to do with my mental health issues. I was trying to prepare myself to be the best mum I could be. And I found the scars to be so embarrassing that I had to get a tattoo to cover some of the most obvious scars
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19-04-2019
10:45 PM
1 Kudo
Sometime's I'll log off for a few days at a time. I understand that could be frustrating when trying to seek support. But I promise I will never just log off and never come back on! What's going on for you right now? x
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