@TANDT  sorry to hear about unwanted changes in your sex drive! It can be hard when we want to please our partner but aren't able to organically, or we are 'out of sync' with them. Keeping an open dialogue is really important, and trying out some practical solutions may be a good idea too. Maybe see a GP to rule out any bodily issues, or try using things to help you relax and prepare for intimacy, or address any stresses in your life that maybe are interrupting your urges on a subconsciously? ... View more

@Taylor-RO love the wholesome family time!   I haven't really needed one until now, and it was hard to get a reasonably cheap one as I tried to get it during the exam period, silly me! ... View more

Finally getting my hands on a webcam made me smile! ... View more

oooo I just might @emilygrey ! Do you have a particular way you like to prepare them? ... View more

@Nuav3998 thanks for sharing your story, we appreciate that posting when you are in a tough headspace can be hard. It sounds like you might benefit from some professional guidance to help you with your low mood and feelings of depression- let us know if this is something you would be interested in and we can direct you towards further resources. ... View more

@manicbekaj  thanks for sharing, I'm sure this will resonate with many people in many different ways, best of luck with this production! ... View more

@James99  hiya! I love the self-reflection and kind honesty you have helped others create in this thread!   I think when I relapse into not studying for my online courses a good technique is to just try to do 5 minutes of the task- I literally set a timer. If, at the end of the 5 minutes I don't want to continue with it deep down, then I don't. Simple. But often I do because I sat down and broke through the procrastination barrier! It works well for hobbies that you need a bit of extra motivation to sit down and tackle things! ... View more

@Bella2 thanks for starting this catch up thread- they are always so handy!   My answers to your questions are here; feel free to answer them too, I'd love to hear what you have to say!   - during this tough time did you find enough support on reachout.com? I have my own help resources but reach out has been a great source of positive distraction, a great place to discover new things, make connections and help others - During this time did you wish you did something differently to make the situation better? I should have been kinder to myself much sooner and do whatever I needed to make lockdown easier! Gotta practise what I preach a little more hahaa - what new skill did you pick up during this time? I'm slowlyyyy learning AUSLAN - did you catch up on things you wanted to do for a while Yes- namely books! I have been reading for pleasure again!   ... View more

@Lost_Space_Explorer5  thanks for creating this thread, I love aesthetic study vibes! I'm not studying (right now!) so I can't answer these Qs,   I thought I'd just add this link for library background noise and some gifs to encourage you all and help you visualise a fab library environment!       ... View more

@KimberlyMetcal  Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about your break up- they can be hard and can make life seem a bit dull as we notice a new absence around us. It sounds like you may benefit from talking to a trusted adult, a close friend or even a professional- just to help you get on the right track to post break up recovery. If you aren't sure about seeking professional help face to face, telehealth can be a great option, including 'text counsellors' or 'chat' therapy. Let us know if you'd like us to explore these options with you at all.   ... View more

@Hannah-RO @Saltwaterdreamtime  ahhh sorry I missed this one- it looks a great chat, I'll have to aim to join the next one! ... View more

@Loony88 I agree, having a great bunch of people around us can help us feel secure, understood and safer. They are more likely to provide fun and activity that doesn't involve drug use. Do you have a group of like-minded people around you? ... View more

@Loony88 ooo do you have a favourite fruit or chocolate brand in particular? ... View more

@MemphisBelle  100%! We are still very green around the ears in the grand scheme of things! It's a good thing! ... View more

@Spencer_Elliot Ahh I see! In that case, suggested names like Sid or even Ash could work!  ... View more

Hiya @Spencer_Elliot ! Welcome to the forums, we are happy to have you here! Simon, Samual, or even Toby or Xavier or Conor sound good with Elliot too! Hope this helps! Feel free to continue to share your story here on this thread too :) ... View more

@sukidakedo Thanks for sharing your story, we know it can be hard when those we love don't quite understand us or appreciate an important aspect of who we are. Remember, whilst you put the work into helping her understand you and support you (as you deserve!), you need to practise self-compassion regardless of the outcome. What self-compassion look like for you in this context? Feel free to discuss! ... View more

@MemphisBelle 23 is a great age, and you can pursue any hobby you like, and being an ally is a lifetime experience of learning and growth! I hope the resources posted here have helped you! ... View more

@Pyrotechnic  just thought I'd stop by and see how you are travelling? We are here if you just need to chat, or if you want more thorough support (including navigating professional resources) we can provide that too! ... View more

@Luker hi there! Maybe cooking and growing your own food could help? Or meal prepping to minimise the effort involved with eating? Just some more ideas, there are some great ideas already! ... View more

@lokifish  fab idea! Mine id December 8th! ... View more

@sunnygirl606 thanks for making this- a great first thread idea!   Today I went (thrift) window shopping through the most gorgeous obnoxiously 60s, 70s and 80s clothes! Makes me so grateful to get back to things!\   ... View more

@adalas hi there, welcome to the forums, we are glad you could make it! If you need any help navigating our different spaces feel free to let us know! ... View more

@adalas hey there- we appreciate you posting! We hope we can provide a space to voice your thoughts/inner dialogue on this issue that is understanding and compassionate. Would you consider speaking to a close friend or trusted adult about this? They may even just be a good soundboard for you to gather your thoughts before you decide if this is something if you want to do something about.  ... View more

@sunnygirl606 fabulous idea!   As I'm more of a non-fic reader, I love reading biographies, but I'm looking to expand my fiction palette, so I can't wait to see what everyone posts! ... View more

@Hannah-RO  thanks for creating this- I was going to say, a lot of self-care techniques surrounding COVID-19 news media might be useful here! Like engaging in our communities and supporting them whilst taking a step back when you need too! ... View more

Hiya @Ba184  thanks for posting here- this is a caring, compassionate place where you can express how you feel. Everyone has said some great things so far- if you are making to make connections/socialisation/have fun here, you can try these threads:    https://forums.au.reachout.com/t5/Hanging-out/Introduce-Yourself-Here-OCTOBER-2020/td-p/411526/jump-to/first-unread-message   https://forums.au.reachout.com/t5/Hanging-out/Memes-other-funny-stuff/td-p/151184/jump-to/first-unread-message   https://forums.au.reachout.com/t5/Hanging-out/How-s-everyone-s-day-going/td-p/410468/jump-to/first-unread-message   Hope these help!   ... View more

@Saltwaterdreamtime no I relate, even having people moving about more in metro areas (including to and from virus hotspots) makes me a little weary too, so it's very understandable! ... View more

@Saltwaterdreamtime  thanks for posting this- it has been hard but thankfully Christmas will be fairly normal! ... View more

Hi @catcatchocolate firstly, I'm pleased to hear that you are in a better mindset as of late, and that you had a friend to support you whilst you felt vulnerable. Would you like to brainstorm ways to bust stress at school and in general so that next time you can avoid what happened last time? Let us know, we are here to help navigate the next steps forward. ... View more