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Shakeitup
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23-09-2017
04-10-2017
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04-10-2017
03:51 PM
hey thank you for replying, i'm going ok. i am planning out how to talk about it i guess. my dad for as non-observant as he is must have noticed something yesterday, he asked my mum if she needed her ears cleaned out.
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25-09-2017
01:15 AM
side note to this following the last two comments any advice on how to bring this up with my friends for some support would be greatly appreciated. i'm not the best at discussing difficult issues and neither are my friends, if we see an exit we are all happy to bail, but i know that if i can keep myself on topic they will listen, i just don't know how to get there.
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25-09-2017
01:13 AM
hey thank you for replying, i appreciate that even if you haven't been in the same scenario. i have tried talking to her and she got mad at me the last time i tried, she also mistakenly thought i was dad at one point. i do have other friends but i haven't really talked to them about it yet. i did try to reach out to one friend i know would be really helpful but she is in another city so i don't know i can do this on facebook or in a phone call. i've thought about some of my other friends and i will try bring it up but it gets a bit awkward when everyone is having a good time to bring it up. all my friends and i either study or work or both so we don't see each other a lot and i feel like we should be having a good time when we do see each other and i don't want to be the downer.
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25-09-2017
01:08 AM
hi thanks for replying, i don't think there's been anything major, not that i can think of anyways. she does seem to be taking small things much harder than she previously has but i don't know if that is a causation or something to take into consideration. i have tried to talk to her about it. the first i thought i got through but obviously not, the second i was more vague and i think she though i was referring to my dad... then i tried again just a week ago and she got mad at me so that is on pause for now, we live in a small apartment and us fighting in said apartment just doesn't work well. i don't have anyone who can see what i see that's around her a lot, i do have friends that would listen and i want to talk to some of them but we're not an overly feelings chatting type of friends, neither am i so it's hard. i'm concerned about how much to read into what i'm seeing, if i'm just overreacting and putting things that aren't related together and cause i'm looking for things i'm picking up on things more, or if i'm doing the opposite and underplaying these things because of the put a frog in water and raise the temperature you can boil him to death metaphor.
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25-09-2017
12:36 AM
hey, I'm 23 and i get that desire too. I've been at uni for 5 years now and i just so want to do nothing for a couple years, maybe even just 6 months would satisfy me at this point. When I was 18 a few friends and I rented a place for a few months a couple hours from where we live to get away (wasn't really an option to hide out where we lived at that point) and just when to the beach and hung out and worked waitressing and it was a great couple months just vegging out so I totally get your desire. So long as you're happy, or happy with you're happiness level and not hurting yourself in anyway (not implying you are btw) then i think this is a great age to veg out and do nothing but work and gym and read and whatever. I'd rather get to 40 and say yeh i tried that i did that even if people see it as stupid than get to 40 or 60 or whatever and be like i wish i just chilled a bit when i was younger. anyways that's just me, so you're not by yourself in this.
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23-09-2017
12:47 AM
not sure if this where to post this so sorry if this is wrong. ive been worried about my Mum for nearly 2 years this year she’s this year she’s gotten much worse. I don’t know what’s wrong Rongelap with heh ugh I have i my suspicions but she’s been really moody and just not herself anymore. shes always been nice and compassionate non synoathetic but she seems to have lost most of her empathy over the past so years or so. She’s also been getting more annoyed at things and angry. There’s no major life’s changes that could contribute to this. She’s also been not listening and forgetting stuff more like she doesn’t care what anyone else says or thinks. Even when it’s something Im an expert in or know for a fact she’ll dismiss me. She’s also been getting really annoyed when I point out she’s forgotten I told her something and even when I have proof she still blames me or just ignore she me. This is just not my mum anymore and I banter between a few things that could be wrong with her. I’m sure she can take tell something is up too but I don’t knows know to what degree. Sometimes I find myself hoping something is wrong because otherwise this is just her and I don’t like that option. Has anyone else been through something similar and what did you do?
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