I don't know what to do anymore.
I have a few friends, who I love very deeply. But there has always seemed to be the same stupid drama and stupid fights. I honestly love them to bits, but after all this drama, I just can't do it. It's mentally draining me. Friendships always have problems, but not like mine do. I don't know if it's just me though. I feel like I'm the problem. I'm honestly about to ditch all of them and just stay alone. I don't know if I should though. I feel like I've hit rock bottom. Honestly, all this has made me depressed, and I'm just really done. I don't know what to do. I'm stuck
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Hi @Bella_C
Sorry all of this drama with your friends is causing you so much stress and sadness😔
I also think that it may be worth it to branch out more if you can and find people who are able to better care for you. Do you do any extracurriculars?
Hey @Bella_C
Thank you for sharing that with us. I'm really sorry to hear you've been feeling depressed. Friendship problems can definitely be very mentally exhausting and draining. I for one definitely get really stressed with drama and try to avoid it as much as possible, so I can only imagine what it's been like for you.
Have you expressed how this has been affecting you to your friend group yet? And do you think it might be worth putting yourself out there to make new friends? Or hanging out with other people more for a while and building up those relationships too? Maybe that way, you can keep your current friends around at a certain distance for the sake of your mental health if you want to, whilst building up other support networks for yourself?
How has your past couple days been since?
Hope you're feeling ok today ❤️
Hi @Bella_C
I am really sorry that you are having to deal with your friends fighting. It sounds like you are in a really difficult position 😞 I don't blame you for feeling drained, even though you really care about them at the same time. Sometimes people are so lost in their own world that they don't realise how far things have gone. Have you tried telling your friends how you are feeling? We actually have a few articles on friendships here which include tips for if your friends are impacting your mood or hurting your feelings.
You mentioned feeling depressed and stuck. It really sucks that all of this is having a massive impact on how you are feeling. That must be so hard to manage. Sometimes when people feel this way, they think of ending their life or harming themselves. Are you having these types of thoughts at the moment?
