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⚠️WARNING: really long paragraph and a lot of reading. Ppl just some reading and writing errors. YOU HAE BEEN WARNED⚠️

 

     So I'm kinda having some struggles with some ex-friends of mine. It started with my ex bf. We were only together for about 5 days which upsets me very much. I was friends with his little sister, she's my age, my ex bf is about 2 years older than me. He broke up with me for God knows what reason. After he did, he started running his mouth about me, while filling his sister's head with fake crap about me. She believed it ig. And she started doing the same thing, running her mouth about me. To some of my ex-friends. They believed her, of course, And now they all hate me.

 

     They always say bad things about me behind my back. They have used threats on me such a wanting to fight me, and wanting to throw me into the trash bc of my height. Yesterday I was getting fed up with it and some of my our friend's agree with me. So I called one of my ex-friends out on it.

 

     I sent them a long paragraph saying how I felt and how I would like it to stop. I mentioned that I wasn't trying to get them to understand me or be on my side of everything, I was only telling them how what they were doing I thought was wrong. They have done the same thing to one of my other friends before to where one of them was running there mouthes about them and the rest of them just went along with it. I wasn't expecting a kind response back. A few min went by and I got a long text back from the friend, and it wasn't a good text.

 

      Basically they were saying that I deserved to be treated like crap and they told me that I was the cause of all the drama that I was involved in. Keep in mind that the drama started at the very beginning of October 2021. So it's been pretty much 6 months.

 

     I probably should mention that I also was involved in drama where I was being accused of sleeping around with other FULLY GROWN MEN when I am in middle school, other were saying I was a slut and a whore, I got body shamed a lot, even fake rumors were saying that I got assaulted by my ex and was impregnated by him when I wasn't. Everyone put the blame on me when I did nothing wrong the entire time. Only 1-2 people helped me through it. Plus my family helped me out too. But everyone else just sat back and watched as everything happened. Some people literally admitted to finding my drama and my arguments with my ex funny. Which it isn't.

 

    But back to the point. There could be chances that they may want to do something pretty bad to me. Which I am expecting. But what I most worry about is how I will handle the situation. I would like to turn to the authorities bc all my school has done is just tell me to let it fly over my head. Which it hasn't been working. I can't just go to the authorities and say that people are treating me poorly though bc they mot cer won't do anything about it if I put it that way.

 

     But my school hasn't helped the situation at all. My family has been helping me through this, they have offered to say something to her parents of these kids, but I haven't let hem just yet. I'm getting tired of bad things always happening to me. I just want to live a normal life again. What should I do?

Evangeline
EvangelinePosted 10-03-2022 02:16 AM

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Bre-RO
Bre-ROPosted 10-03-2022 01:32 PM

Hey there @Evangeline 👋 

 

I am so sad to read about how your ex-boyfriend and ex-friends are treating you. Thank you for trusting us and opening up about this. 

 

It's hard to understand how cruel people can be, and I can imagine how tiring it would be to see them at school. Six months is a long time to be dealing with this - the rumours, talking about you behind your back and making threats. How are you holding up? 

 

You sound like a very mature person, and sending them a text was really brave. I'm sorry they responded with more threats - it must be exhausting to be on guard waiting for something to happen. You mentioned that your family are helping you, which I'm happy to hear. Do they know about the threats? 

 

You said you'd like to go to the authorities because your school hasn't taken proper action. I found this website that has information about responding to bullying and the laws that protect you. They offer help for situations like yours and have a "get help" page here. We also have a page of content about bullying, which might be helpful to look at. 

 

I also wanted to share this online community called "Togetherall" with you. Unfortunately, because we are an Australian service, our community guidelines are that we can't support international community members. I'd really encourage you to check out the link I sent to you, open up to them and continue seeking support.

 

Nobody should go through what you're dealing with, and it's so important to have a strong support network around you when these things happen. We will keep your account active for the next 24 hours, so you can check out those resources and respond to us. 

 

Sending you good vibes to get through this hard time 😊

 

 

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