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SJG
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:45 PM

When isn't it appropriate to drink alcohol?

Hmmmm, maybe around small children..at work.. at school.
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:38 PM

Sounds like a good thing to do @dreamcatcher
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:38 PM

Yep @dreamcatcher when it is relied on not just once but on a regular basis than it is a concern, agreed.
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
dreamcatcher
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:36 PM

What do you think are some signs that a friend may be drinking too much too often?

Starting to affect them psychologically or they become almost dependent (for example: 'I can't calm down without 3 glasses of beer' or 'I need to have a drink to survive the day').... if it's real bad, people may feel sick from not having it... ugh! 

SJG
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:40 PM

I think a glass of wine or a beer with dinner is nice but yeah definitly if they cant relax without it or are fidgety until they have it.. can be tell tale signs they are addicted. also if they spend all there money on it and go without other things like food or dont pay rent in time..
SJG
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:38 PM

@j95 its so hard trying to deal with people that are really drunk, i used to work at a pub and thats practically all i did.. actually got a bit scary!
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:35 PM

@dreamcatcher well yeah I have, with Dad, but thats not in the context you mean. Yeah with a mate I have, unfortunately I was the subject to his violence. I can't recommed much but stay away keep others away, don't talk to them unless you desperately have to.
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
dreamcatcher
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:37 PM

@j95  I agree, I think unless they're a risk to themselves or others, it's best to avoid and let them calm down. Could be wrong, but that's what I'd do. 🙂

dreamcatcher
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:33 PM

What are some signs that you or a friend might need to stop/slow down the drinking for the night?

Big ones; vomiting and passing out 😞 not fun!

j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:30 PM

Finally somebody agrees @SJG
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
N1ghtW1ng
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:39 PM

@SJG You have an extra i, after the second 1. Robot Happy

What do you think are some signs that a friend may be drinking too much too often?
Uh... they might be showing some signs of depression and withdrawal. I'm not sure, they'll definitely be addicted. Will always be drinking.
SJG
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:41 PM

ahhh the sneaky i @N1ghtW1ng
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:28 PM

@stonepixie yeah nah sounds like it, but no no just a bit much to drink, weirdos..
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:27 PM

Ok so I do like oj and goon! @SJG
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
SJG
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:29 PM

@j95 hahaha goon and oj is actually not bad
SJG
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:30 PM

ok next question is along the same lines..

 

What do you think are some signs that a friend may be drinking too much too often?

j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:26 PM

Or they become interested in strange things like the windows or my blinds (last time I had mates over was weird!)
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
stonepixie
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:27 PM

It sounds like they may have been on something other than alcohol @j95. But I could be wrong. 


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j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:24 PM

Of course the physical stuff everybody has mentioned too... slurred speech, cant walk straight, swearing their head off,
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:23 PM

 What are some signs that you or a friend might need to stop/slow down the drinking for the night?

Aggresive behaviour, or when they just start talking absolute sh*t. Far out, can't stand a drunk person who can talk muddled up words for 4 hours straight, shut up!!
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
dreamcatcher
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:30 PM

@j95  Have you had to deal with a angry, drunk person before? Would you say it's better to confont them and try to help or just avoid them? 

j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:20 PM

@N1ghtW1ng everybody has their own veiws/preferences, I honestly think being strong enough to say no or nah im not into instead of drinking to fit is a very very intelligent thing!
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:18 PM

@N1ghtW1ng not worth it!! So not worth being sick over it. Haha
@SJG I agree - most people drink underage nowadays everybody I know who is underage started at 16, 17, same with me and my mates (ok 15 for me but anyway.... I had access to the goods ok!?)
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
N1ghtW1ng
Uber contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:20 PM

@j95 although it's not all bad if you are with family in a controlled environment for underage drinking. It's still not good but it's a little better. Just a smigde. Overseas though the age is 16 or something so they are much more lenient I guess.

What are some signs that you or a friend might need to stop/slow down the drinking for the night?
Crossed eyes. Slurred speech. Walking into things. Constantly tripping. Downing a bottle of alcohol (vodka). Just a few I think. But I wouldn't know for sure.
SJG
Star contributor

originally posted on 25-08-2014 8:24 PM

What are some signs that you or a friend might need to stop/slow down the drinking for the night?

 

Whenever one of my friends is doing shots i keep an eye on them, if they start stumbling and its not due to heels, or they are hanging out with people they normally wouldnt i usually get them a glass of water, or take them to the bathroom and pretend like i need there help (for ages)