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I don't know how to forget my ex. he cheated
i've been feeling really bad for a few days now and I just don't want to keep crying.
He was a bad guy, he cheated on me, I tried to forgive him but it didin't work, he was just ignoring the fact that all the problems in our relationship started because of him, and whenever i tried to tell him about how i felt, he would just get mad and tell me to get over it.
Eventhogh he made me suffer so much, i loved him and I still do but i just want to forget him. He already found a new persong to hang with and i'm just stuck with this feelings.
Help please.
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As someone currently dealing with a very similar issue know you aren't alone and remember your worth I don't know how to fix it but I know time has helped me a lot.
Thank you so much.
He was my only friend and we study the same thing so now I have to see him being happy and with someone else while I'm just alone and miserable.
I'm sorry your experiencing this try to keep yourself distracted and keep doing things you find joy in you will come out stronger in the end
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Hi @Pine_Leopard, I’m so sorry to hear about how painful the end of your relationship has been. Staying in a relationship when the trust has been broken can be incredibly difficult. I don’t blame you for having a hard time moving forward from such a painful experience. Dealing with a breakup can be so emotionally draining, often it’s not just the hurt you have to deal with, but the grief of losing the person too. It can be so difficult to come to terms with what has happened.
Have you got anyone supporting you through this? Such as a family member, friend or counsellor?
I’m not sure if you’re up for a read at the moment, but we have some articles on coping with breakups that might be helpful.
It sounds like the last few days have been really draining for you. Is there something nice you can do for yourself to take your mind off everything for the evening?
I also wanted to let you know that we emailed you, so please look out for that 💛
Thank you so much, i needed so bad someone to talk to.
Right now I'm taking my final exams, so I am studying most of the time of my day, but as we study the same career I have to see him everyday and I just feel empty so when I take breaks from what I'm doing I start thinking about all the awful situations and I cry for so long.
Hey @Pine_Leopard I’m so sorry you're experiencing this right now. It sounds like it has been an incredibly difficult time for you and so I just want to say that we are so happy you reached out to us. We truly are so lucky to have you here. Having to cope with a breakup is hard enough, but then to add Exam time and seeing your ex on top of that, that's A LOT! So I think its completely understandable that you're feeling this way. I just want to say that you're feelings are valid, and you're allowed to take some time out for yourself right now. Do you mind me asking if you have been able to share these feelings with anyone else?
I am just wondering how you are taking care of yourself with so much happening. It can be really easy in such stressful and hard times, to forget about ourselves, so I just want to remind you that you are important. I'm not sure if you're up for it at all, but we have a really great article on Ways to look after yourself if you would like some ideas on things you can do.
I am also mindful of the impact this must all be having on you, so I just want to remind you that you're not alone and we're all here for you. In saying that, if you would like to talk to someone, it might be worth reaching out to a service like Kidshelpline who are available via phone and webchat at any time 💜
Thank you so much, I´ll take your advice and try to focus more on myself and reach out to someone close to me, I´m trying to get back to the life I had before I met him and eventhough I feel sad because of how much I used to hang out with him I´ll give it a try and I´ll do my best finding new things to do and meeting new people too.
Thank you so much.
Hi @Pine_Leopard 
Thank you for sharing. They sound like really good goals to have, even though things are hard right now. Just so you know, I have sent you through an email