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Not sure if I should go on a group hike with my mum who snores

Hi everyone,

 

I am thinking of going on a 6-day hike with my mum. I love hiking and being out in nature (and I love my mum!), however I have a number of concerns. The main one is that my mum snores. Loudly. I am a super light sleeper, and in the past when I have tried to sleep in the same room with her I've had horrible sleep (if any). I've even tried headphones, but they don't block out the noise. I also think my OCD makes me more sensitive to noise or something, because there are certain sounds I can't stand and snoring is one of them.

If we went on this hike, I might be able to have my own tent (if the hiking group doesn't fill up completely and there are some spare tents). But there is also a high chance that it would fill up and I would end up having to share a tent with my mum and sleeping right next to her.

It's really tough because her legs and knees are getting bad, and I don't know how many more big hikes she will be able to do. So I am worried if I don't take this chance now, I might not have many chances to go hiking with her.

At the same time though I am just so worried about not getting any sleep. I know I will be miserable if I have to do a 6-day hike whilst being severely sleep deprived the whole time 😞

I guess there is a chance I will be so tired at the end of each day that I might be able to fall asleep despite the snoring . . . but I just don't know for sure.

Another option is that I just go on a holiday with my mum to a city and we rent a holiday flat that has at least a couch-bed separate from the bedroom.

 

I have no idea what to do. Anyone have any thoughts/advice?

 

Thanks! xx

Jardin
JardinPosted 20-03-2023 10:45 AM

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waterlemon
waterlemonPosted 20-03-2023 04:51 PM

Hi @Jardin

I totally relate to the experience of trying to sleep with a loved one who snores loudly :') Not a pleasant experience at all

Have you tried talking to your mum about this? It seems like you two are close and she will most likely understand where you are coming from. Maybe you two can find a middle ground and enjoy your trip together ☺️

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