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Please help me

Please help me i don't know what to do again. I feel hated by my mom and dad . Hated maybe not the right word? Maybe i am just jealous of my sister? well, she is kind,smart,have a scholarship and maybe every single talent, and i am just complete opposite . My mum and dad always compare me with my sis and every single people that seems better of than me. I  dunno i feel worthless and bring misfortune to my family. To tell the truth i had very many suicidal though ald since high school, i always could tolerate it tho, i could always find a way to repress it. But tonight i feel i am  on my peak, i dunno anymore, i just want some help pleaseee

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Hey @Ben-RO again, let us know how you're doing Smiley Happy

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@blank

Thanks for sharing your story, it takes a lot of courage to speak and share feelings and thoughts such as yours. I am sorry to hear about your situation, families can definitely suck sometimes and sometimes it may feel like you're put under tonnes of pressure to excel. This pressure may come from a place of love though - I don't know you, and I don't know the specifics of your situation but from what i can gather, it seems like your parents want the best for you too.

You have taken the first step in changing your situation by sharing your story here and for that you should be proud. Have you spoken about these feelings with a counsellor or a psychologist? They may be able to help you with these feelings instead of you continuing to tolerating or repressing them.

Please keep us updated.
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Hey @blank

It was really brave for you to reach out. Family dynamics can be so difficult, and not feeling like you have your parents full support can be so tough. People love others in different ways, and I have no doubt your parents love you and you bring your own special qualities and abilities. Try and find the belief in yourself and than it will come from those around you. It has to first come within though. Maybe make a list of everything which makes you great, maybe its a quality like being trustworthy, or a skill. I am sure you will be surprised at how many things will be on that list....

 

Just know that you have your whole life ahead of you, where if you want, you can make your own family and choose who is around you. 

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Hi there @blank

How are you doing today? It's been a few days since you last posted here to wanted to check in and see how you're going.

I think that @jvkn & @Rachelle444 have both given you some great information and advice.
I wanted to ask about you. You said that your the opposite to your sister, which is okay, we're all unique. But I'm sure you have a couple talents and things your good at. What do you enjoy doing? What is a favourite hobby?
I'm curious as to why you think you bring misfortune to your family. Has something happened? Or are you just feeling like your not shinning as bright as your sister? Which is okay. But remember everyone shines in their own way.

Remember you're amazing just as you are Heart

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Because it is what come out from my dad mouth @Bee Anw thank you guys for the advice. Sorry, for worrying that night I am too emotional ald. Anw thanks

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Hey @blank that's okay, sometime we can feel a bit overwhelmed, particularly at night. Would you like to learn some ways to work through it if you feel that way again?

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@blank ok that makes more sense. I wonder if you agree with him? Or do you disagree?
It's ok to be emotional blank. It's how you manage yourself and how you cope that is important Smiley Happy

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