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i still want to study @Jay-RO but i dont know now. i know i can study at night which is what i was doing before but i dont know how id go with it wih everything happening in the new yr. maybe i could just do a small course that just goes for a few months...

i really dont have anyone to talk to esp about this even if i wouldve liked it. When i meantion they want me to see a specialist i could meantion part of the reason which is suspected pcos and/or endometriosis but i cant meantion the other part because ill either need to bring up the abuse or i need to lie (well it wouldnt be a lie..) and say ive had sex before and that isnt going to go down to well either. what a crappy situation to be in right now
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It's great that you still want to study @scared01 Smiley Happy Some study terms often start later in the year, so you've always got time to figure out where you can fit in study before you decide to start.

Do you think contacting a helpline such as kidshelpline or lifeline will help you have that discussion? It's okay if you don't have anyone around you that you can talk to, helplines can be a great way of getting that discussion anonymously as well.
I'm sorry that it is such a crappy situation for you. Do you think you'd be able to tell your mum about the first part of the reason?

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thats true @Jay-RO there are a few courses ive looked at that are short term and that i can start at anytime as its online.
i could try contacting a helpline a little later when its quieteras yes i can be anonymous and talk it out without having to many worries about identitiy etc.
i dont really have alot of choice now, im going to have to have further investigations so im going to have to say something. i think i meantioned to her about the posibility of those conditions about a yr ago so it might be ok...

im sorry, i dont mean to be negatve but this is hitting really hard esp since my lost her battle to cancer (which if mine cells are cancerous itll be the same as what i might have) only 2 yrs ago.
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Good luck with those courses @scared01 Smiley Happy

It's okay to be negative, I completely understand that this is a difficult situation for you to be dealing with. I'm sorry to hear that you lost someone to cancer, it's so difficult to lose someone we care about.

You have done amazing today dealing with these feelings and such a difficult situation. Contacting a helpline when it's quieter sounds like an excellent idea.

I'm logging off now, but I hope you have a good weekend Smiley Happy

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@scared01 i'm so sorry to hear about the results you got back, it's not fair that you've had to deal with so much in such a short period of time Smiley Sad It's more than understandable that you're shaken by what you found out, and you've been so brave throughout the entire process in really overwhelming circumstances.

I was just wondering if you've ever mentioned what happened to you to your psychologist, or if you would feel comfortable doing so? I know you won't be able to see them for a while though. Did you manage to get ahold of the helpline?
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thank you @Jay-RO
it is very difficult to loose someone we care about. my nan was also my best friend so it was like loosing 2 people at once.
i dont really know how to process it, its tiring and so overwhelming. i am constantly shaking now and i havent been like that for abit Smiley Sad

thank you @ecla34 i have already had skin cancer before but thankfully that part is sorted now but its worrying because maybe ive got the cancerous genes within my body and that doesnt really sit well with me at all. makes it a whole lot scarier. i dont feel very brave at all..
no i havent meantioned the abuse to anyone except my nurse and it was purley for these tests. its not something i really want to persue or to talk about with anyone. I havent contacted a helpline as its been a little crazy around here. if i need to i mgiht talk tot hem tonight as things are getting sorted more today so i wont have to worry about people popping in and out.

thank you @ecla34

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@scared01 I just want to wrap my arms around you and give you a big long hug!

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It sounds like quite a lot to be dealing with, it is so understandable that you've been feeling all the emotions you have been. And it's okay to be feeling them!

 

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thank you @Bee hugs are much appreciated and those little bears are very cute!

it is so much to be dealing with, its really not the way i had intended to end a yr and move into another. i dont have much faith that things will be ok now and my positivity for next year has really be stripped down but maybe things will still be ok....

In a way it feels like a punishment, i was prepared fir surgury but this- this wasnt on the cards. i had planned to study, and start therapy again and start to make those positive steps forward and be able to breathe for once but when i had made up my mind the next day i got the news of now this.
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Hi @scared01 I've just read through the thread and it sounds like you're going through a really tough time. It's difficult when life throws us these curve balls when we least expect it Smiley Sad I wanted to check in to see how you are going today? Please know that we are here for you and sending you a million hugs! Heart

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hello @Lan-RO
it is really difficult.i can feel myself sinking lower and lower but i dont know what to do. i feel like im just going to burst Smiley Sad
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