relationships
what does it mean if some one says that " they are not into people at the moment "
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Heyo @Lonelyboy17 !
From my experiences that usually means they are not look to be in any relationship or even date at the current time. Most likely they are either recovering from something, or focused on other things such as work, studies, self improvement etc.
There are people that don't want to have relationships, they like to be alone or they haven't trust in their partner because they had a bad past with another person. I can say that I was between the people who hadn't trust in their partner but one day changed my life when I met her accidentally in the airplane. Now she is my wife and can say that she is my twin flame after reading the twin flame guide, we have the same preferences, feelings, lookings about life, and hobbies. In conclusion, I can say that we shouldn't lose trust in people, maybe we haven't found them yet.
@Lonelyboy17 like @WheresMySquishy said, it's hard to know without context. That said, a few possible meanings:
They don't want a relationship right now,
They don't have a crush on anyone currently
People are annoying them/ they're introverted and not getting the space they need
They're asexual/ aromantic and just aren't "into people" in those ways
Or something else entirely..
Your best bet is probably going to be asking them to clarify what they said though; we can only really guess at what they meant over the internet, which makes it a lot less reliable...
Hi @Lonelyboy17!
I'm not sure what they mean because we can't read minds and I don't know the context of the conversation, but it could be that they're not looking to make any new friends or aren't ready for a relationship at the moment.
How did it make you feel when they said that?
