have you considered doing aged care work? it doesnt have to be in a nursing home, it can be private work through mable or other platforms or even through a company who offers home care and community support. something to think about anyway.
that tough with your cousins. sounds liek you made the right move for your own mental health.
im just catching up here for a little while longer, then shower and chill watching a movie i think. have to be up around 5 so would be nice to get a few hrs sleep if i can