Hey @nayuta
Whilst it may not feel like it made much of a difference initially talking to your sister, i think it can sometimes help plant the seed by initiating the idea first. You should be proud that you asserted yourself and spoke up for yourself as im guessing that perhaps your sister doesnt really realise the impact of having her bf or friends over.
You mentioned you worry about making her angry, which is a very common reason why people dont speak up. Sounds like she means alot to you. You mentioned you havent told your parents. Im wondering whats stopping you from sharing this frustration with your parents? Do you think your sister may feel like youve gone behind her back? Whats the worse that could happen if you did tell them?
Our home is often our safe space and sanctuary, and having other people there that you didnt invite can be very uncomfortable for anyone.
We are here with you.
